decent looking male aspies with NO job come in here.

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girlfriend -------check

in school-----check

-24----------check





means of supporting a girl right now and giving here what she deserves...............................................................not there

YEP..........im just your average mid 20s with a girlfriend better looking than me who i can do s**t for right now.........................



oh and my parents support me.....it feels like there is no way out of this....im in school...but will i get a job to support her?

24 year olds supporting their girlfriends? I would have thought your in the age where your main focus would be to try to support yourself. The same applies to her, then you might get some sort of Co-op.

What does she deserve?

Support her? Is she pregnant?

Its one of those bs things that impliess that women are only after financial stability(not agreeing with it just explaining it).According to this theory a female only considers a male as dating material if she knows that he can help her when she gets in financial trouble.

I guess that must be why so many unemployed males that are struggling to get by have a partner.

Yeah, it is a materialistic way of looking at it. A female is only going to be interested in dating a male if she feels that he can provide her with what she needs. Usually it's heavily implied that "what she needs" is money, or if we look at it from the trendy anthropological standpoint that's all the rage these days, food and/or resources for the Stepford cavewife. Some women are looking for companionship more than anything else. Some women have that other stuff taken care of, or it may not be a top priority at that time. Not every woman is secretly a gold-digger.

Oh, so my main focus should be to develop a base to provide for myself

I'm 23. At my age, my parents were married and living in their own house.
Most of the people I went to high school with did the same.

You must live in an extremely wealthy community.

Even here in the UK, the people that settle down young have to sell their souls to a 30 year mortage, extremely long hours or boring work for both partners even with the aid of a deposit from parents. Theyd probably begin this near 30, and have to keep working the same jobs and paying the mortage till they are old and grey. The only people in 20s with their own homes, is the uber wealthy brats whose parents BUY them a house so they can go to college in london or somewhere else trendy.

It's not bs...it's true. Despite feminism, women still want a man who makes more than them or at least the same amount.



Yeah, if a woman is physically ATTRACTED to you, she'll let it slide, but if you don't have looks or money (like me), well....no honey.

While the language of the OP is a bit...anachronistic...I think the meaning of it is worthy....you don't need to be wealthy or even terribly well off to have a girlfriend/SO.

Your EDUCATED

The converse is true as well, I'm struggling just as much as I did when I was broke...

A job/money are not the panacea they are often supposed to be around here - they're not even necessarily a pre-requisite.

First of all, it's you're. Second of all, so what? Women don't care about education any more than employers do.

That may be true for the majority of women, but I know that there are exceptions. I have known confident, educated women who value being able to relate to someone on their level of education and don't necessarily need someone to pay their way in this world.