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Samuel Latter
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15 Oct 2015, 1:52 pm

My name is Samuel Latter. I've posted other comments saying that, but I don't exactly know what's happened to those other posts, so I thought I'd post this one. In the past, I endured problems at school like bullying and forms of abuse, like almost all Asperger's people mostly do, unless some have been raised in a secure environment away from all that, in which case those lucky people are all isolated cases, in my opinion.

The reason I'm posting this is because I want a girl with similar childhood problems and similar experiences to me. I want someone who'll remind me of me. Otherwise I'll be jealous of that person. Now I was recently told that I shouldn't look at being bullied and abused as a weakness or a drawback that some other people don't have. I, instead, should look at it as an advantage. And I want a girl who will have the same advantage as me, someone who truly understands, who knows what it's like. At the same time, I want this girl to be beautiful, too, someone who matches my ideals and standards.

What else about me, you might ask? I like to draw computer pictures, or rather, put images together on computer, I like to write stories, I like to write scripts and practice scene performances, the type I won't be uncomfortable with. I'm mildly limited to what I can perform, but I'd like to be an actor. I'd love to be an artist, too.

I can't be available to post things all the time, so I'll just say peace out. If there are any girls available, please respond. Peace out.



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15 Oct 2015, 2:01 pm

And what are your ideal standards of beauty? You'll have to be pretty good looking too.


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15 Oct 2015, 5:16 pm

Ah!, the hopeful and naive expectations of youth.
If only I could go back to my youth, to abandon such aspirations and be grateful to settle for anything that wears a skirt.



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15 Oct 2015, 6:09 pm

Nambo wrote:
Ah!, the hopeful and naive expectations of youth.
If only I could go back to my youth, to abandon such aspirations and be grateful to settle for anything that wears a skirt.


How do you know he is young? He could be a 75 year old fart.


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15 Oct 2015, 6:34 pm

nurseangela wrote:
Nambo wrote:
Ah!, the hopeful and naive expectations of youth.
If only I could go back to my youth, to abandon such aspirations and be grateful to settle for anything that wears a skirt.


How do you know he is young? He could be a 75 year old fart.


He would like to be an actor.



Samuel Latter
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21 Oct 2015, 2:34 pm

Well, my highest standards are like Aishwarya Rai (who is from India) and Angelina Jolie as Lara Croft - the cradle of life. The features, the personality and nature of the face are what I find nice, I suppose. But I can settle with a different girl if I have to, someone who looks less stunning. I can settle with a normal-looking girl.

I think, actually, I'd be best off with an Asperger's girl. Maybe a white one or foreign, like Asian or Indian. It hardly matters to me at all. I'm not very fussy about clothing preference, but I do like nice-looking girls who dress nicely.

I draw girls all the time. I draw them in stories and particular pictures and backgrounds. I might send some pictures to give you some ideas.

I won't be able to respond right away. I'm not allowed to use this website all the time. My carers are organising a timetable for me, based on when I CAN use it. So I'll just say I want a nice girl who is like-minded. Peace out.



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21 Oct 2015, 2:57 pm

Does your profile have photos? Are the written sections engaging and spell checked? How long since you posted your profile? Are the initial messages you send short + upbeat?

Without beaucoup more info, it's impossible to say what (if anything) you did wrong. I met my current steady on OKC, so it can work!



Samuel Latter
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04 Nov 2015, 2:16 pm

Well, I don't quite know how to post anything onto this website, if that IS possible. I may need help with that from my carers. You see, I live in a residential home on the Kent coast. I can't really tell anyone yet what its name is. I don't think I'm allowed to. But I DO need a girlfriend. If anyone on this website is able to help me, that would be deeply appreciable. Due to what I've previously written about what kind of girl I want, it may not be easy. Having Asperger's syndrome never is. I'm a caring person and very easy to get along with, so it would be worth it.

Now I may be unable to reply to anyone for a while, because I only get allowed to use this website once a week. Plus I don't properly know how to use it yet. That's all I have to say for now. Peace out.



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04 Nov 2015, 2:37 pm

I'd say your best bet is an Apsie girl because you're most likely going to sound pompous to an NT person.



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04 Nov 2015, 2:57 pm

You should hang out in the Site a bit, actually "talk" to people.

Answer threads. Give your opinion. Offer your experiences.

If someone seems like someone whom you'd like to talk to, ask her permission to Personal Message her, in a Personal Message. If she doesn't respond, don't Personal Message her again.



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04 Nov 2015, 3:59 pm

Samuel Latter wrote:
My name is Samuel Latter. I've posted other comments saying that, but I don't exactly know what's happened to those other posts, so I thought I'd post this one. In the past, I endured problems at school like bullying and forms of abuse, like almost all Asperger's people mostly do, unless some have been raised in a secure environment away from all that, in which case those lucky people are all isolated cases, in my opinion.

The reason I'm posting this is because I want a girl with similar childhood problems and similar experiences to me. I want someone who'll remind me of me. Otherwise I'll be jealous of that person. Now I was recently told that I shouldn't look at being bullied and abused as a weakness or a drawback that some other people don't have. I, instead, should look at it as an advantage. And I want a girl who will have the same advantage as me, someone who truly understands, who knows what it's like. At the same time, I want this girl to be beautiful, too, someone who matches my ideals and standards.

What else about me, you might ask? I like to draw computer pictures, or rather, put images together on computer, I like to write stories, I like to write scripts and practice scene performances, the type I won't be uncomfortable with. I'm mildly limited to what I can perform, but I'd like to be an actor. I'd love to be an artist, too.

I can't be available to post things all the time, so I'll just say peace out. If there are any girls available, please respond. Peace out.
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I can relate to the childhood experiences, what with being bullied. Also like you, I too like to read books and like art.
If you want to chat, its up to you. You sound like the type of person i'll like to befriend, it's up to you of course.
I don't think i'm your type gf wise but if you want to be friends it's up to you, i'm looking for like minded people to talk too online and form friendships.



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05 Nov 2015, 3:54 am

Nambo wrote:
Ah!, the hopeful and naive expectations of youth.
If only I could go back to my youth, to abandon such aspirations and be grateful to settle for anything that wears a skirt.
Hahahahahaha


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