First date in 6 years, now what?

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12 Jul 2018, 7:13 pm

I’ve asked for another and she aid it’d be great, so now I’ll have to figure out that.
We didn’t hold hands is that bad sign?

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12 Jul 2018, 7:14 pm

She accepted another date, Sly.

That's pretty good.

Tell us about the girl, man! How'd you meet? How'd you ask her out?

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12 Jul 2018, 7:28 pm

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jf_a95RWIVg

This is great news! Not holding hands on the first date isn't a biggie, so much depends on how long (and how well) you've known each other before going out the first time.

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12 Jul 2018, 7:34 pm

Congrats!

I probably wouldn’t want to hold hands on a first date unless we’d been friends for awhile.

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12 Jul 2018, 7:46 pm

That is good news. I hope it all works out for you and her in the future.

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12 Jul 2018, 7:47 pm

Holy f*ck, if this keeps up, you're gonna have to change your whole self-image!

kidding...

have fun with it.

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12 Jul 2018, 7:48 pm

Hey Sly....tell us about the first date! You kept stuff from us!

You Sly Fox, you!

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13 Jul 2018, 1:29 am

Take it easy, don't rush. Don't bombard her with texts, stay "hard to get" - if she asks you why you don't text much tell her that you have a busy life. Just keep it to one conversation per day and keep it to the necessary minimum and mostly geared toward meeting her again.

And don't ever tell her that it was the first date in 6 years.

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13 Jul 2018, 2:07 am

Congratulations. I hope it goes well!

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13 Jul 2018, 3:52 am

Congratulations! c:

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13 Jul 2018, 4:17 am

BeaArthur wrote:

Holy f*ck.

Nice one sly. Some people don't do holding hands.

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13 Jul 2018, 5:13 am

And oh, don't EVER tell her about the ASSBurg-, I mean AS syndrome. Just tell her that you're introvert and not a very social person.

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13 Jul 2018, 6:48 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

No. Just...no!

If a guy just kept our conversation to the necessary minimum, I wouldn’t think he was interested in me.

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13 Jul 2018, 6:48 am

Repeat post

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13 Jul 2018, 6:51 am

Twilightprincess wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

And oh, don't EVER tell her about the ASSBurg-, I mean AS syndrome. Just tell her that you're introvert and not a very social person.

You can absolutely tell her about AS at some point. It’s nice to be open with your partner. It encourages intimacy. I might not tell her right away.

A girl that digs you isn’t going to be turned off by that. She’ll want to learn more about it, so she can be supportive. If she doesn’t like it, she’s not worth your time.

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13 Jul 2018, 6:53 am

Twilightprincess wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

No. Just...no!

If a guy just kept our conversation to the necessary minimum, I wouldn’t think he was interested in me.

Which will make you chase him, but if he shows too much interest then you will label him desperate.

Sly, don't listen to Twilightprincess..

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