The "Womanizer"

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Before I tell you this, please note I am a male. Ever since I started middle school, there was this guy who would always have about 12 girls at his feet. Well, recently, I have been getting attention from some of the girls he talks to. When I did, he kinda death stared me down every time he sees me. He might think I am trying to rival him. Have any of you have/had a similar experience?

Nope. I'm not aware of that stuff happening during my school career. Sure, there were some "cool guys", but they didn't really capitalize on it.

You can do whatever you like, you can talk to the girls. If he's pissed, sucks for him. Whatever.

So this guy is having sex with all these girls - at fourteen?
Or is this an older guy?
I'm confused (and shocked tbh)
A womaniser is generally someone who has short sexual relationships with a series of women.

Probably older. 14 year old girls are addicted to predators way too old for them like 16-18. They think they're "more mature". Sucks because I'd have to get a 12-13 year old girl but I don't want a kid.

^ I would have thought a fourteen year old girl was also a kid.

Maybe kids nowadays have sex earlier than a decade ago?

Maybe, from your point of view, but I can rely on a mid-14 year old way more than a spazzy moron who always acts like a 5th grader and laughs at the word "penis".

Last edited by DailyPoutine1 on 05 Dec 2015, 7:00 pm, edited 1 time in total.

^ My mistake.
I wouldn't be surprised if kids start doing it in the cradle soon.

No, I must have used the wrong word (sorry ).

^ Whew.
You don't know how happy I am to hear that.

Exactly. Sad thing is, many intelligent teenage males knew all along that the 18-20 year old males that a 16 year old girl might date are immature creeps, but 16 year old females only seem to realize this once they're older.

It is actually very good that you can see this DP at just your age (15). I realized it at 16.

So we're left with watching older, more attractive, males that are thought to be more mature (but actually aren't) date the little girls they love to take advantage of.

OP, doesn't matter if this guy is older or not, he is a sl•t and I knew a guy like him at my 2nd high school (been to 3). In the 9th grade he had women all over him, some 'just friends', some hookup partners, etc.

You could actually see him kiss one girl, and then another the next day, and flirt with another the next day. It pissed me off and made me uncomfortable seeing it. He also coincidentally happened to be an absolute arrogant pr•cka55.

I remember once he spent the entire class lesson whining and complaining (he sat not too far from me) and at one point I decided to give him attitude - he started to complain, saying 'If only...' and I interrupted saying 'If only you would shut up...you've been complaining all lesson.' and once I looked a way he had to curse to his mate about me.

Anyway, yeah my 2nd school was full of them, 3rd school not so much because it was actually better, although there were still some.

And, OP, if you're actually interested in this girl, I say go for it. If you don't like his death stares, ignore it.

There were a lot of guys like that at my school/in my neighborhood. That was the crowd I tried to hang with. Never learned their magic for picking up women or why being a "womanizer" was so fun.

This guy sounds pretty insecure if he can't handle any competition. That's not cool.

I'd say it's also insecure to take an egotistical pleasure in a high amount of female attention anyway.

It means you require validation to feel at ease - instead of worrying that you're unattractive or unlikable, you make yourself feel better by the attention, instead of naturally developing proper person self-confidence.