NON Aspie but in love with a likely aspie women.

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I offended her by suggesting that she might want to get tested for ASD. I gave her a book. I feel horrible. I apologize a lot over text last nigh and all she said back is "...OK." We have not spoken today. I don't know what to do. I love this girl.

It happened. Next time, you should be more careful.

There are many people who don't want to admit they have a disorder. Especially when it's quite possible that they don't have a disorder, anyway.

Also: you, as a layman, can't really make a determination, anyway. I guess you could speculate, though.

I'm a Spectrumite--and I've been around Spectrumites--yet I still really can't determine if someone is Aspie. I can only speculate.