Not sure what this has to do with love and dating, but we all have higher standards that we wish to adhere to, but none of us are perfect and often we all (nt or other) can fall short of the standards we would like to meet.
That's life. Some people do try hard to be good, others see rules as things to be broken. All I can say is be the best you can be and don't worry about what other people are doing, just be cautious and be careful that you are not taken advantage of.