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Kitty4670
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30 Nov 2020, 11:07 pm

I’m on Badoo dating app, on there, they photo verified you. I’m talking to guys, I video chat with 1 guy there, there been other guys that want to video chat with me. Why guys don’t ask for permission to video chat with you? I hate that! With everything going sooo wrong in my life, I don’t want to get serious about dating anymore, I do want to have a male friend, on Badoo, people can just chat & meet new people. Some of men won’t want to wait until I’m ready to date in person. What wrong with talking on a texting app & video chatting, it is virtually dating. I know alot of people that don’t want to have a social distance date & to wear a mask.


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01 Dec 2020, 3:00 am

I don't think it is there is something wrong with it. They are just are looking for a date and just messaging them is too slow for them. If you are just looking for friends there might be better places to go than Badoo. I think if you are looking for a relationship, you might find it quite hard to find a guy who is willing to wait until you are ready.



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02 Dec 2020, 5:43 am

@kitty4670,

Why on earth do you expect a different outcome,

when you stick to the same old script?

Same old routine,rigid,same patterns,same routines etc etc,

Does cause and effect change course,

or does it stay on course.



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02 Dec 2020, 12:10 pm

It sounds to me like you are on that dating site because you are not looking for a boyfriend, you're just looking for someone interesting to speak to without meeting or arranging a date.

Most men hate that. Most men, as far as I know, are on dating sites because they want a girlfriend for a serious, long term relationship. I'm not saying you have no right to be on a dating site just to talk to other men without looking for a boyfriend, but you must atleast state that in your profile or state that in beginning of a conversation.

As someone looking for a girlfriend myself, I have no interest in a boring, pointless conversation with a woman which leads to nowhere. Of course conversations can be interesting, but me and most other men arent on a dating site for having a conversation, we're on a dating site to be married or find a long term girlfriend.


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02 Dec 2020, 2:54 pm

Why are you all assuming she's not stating that? We didn't see her profile.

But let's face it, most people there don't read profiles.


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