Alpha and Beta Male Traits and How 2 Avoid Being Friendzoned

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There are two primary needs a woman seeks being met from a man, before she can feel both sexually interested in him, and comfortable in allowing herself to actually have sex with him.

The Alpha Traits are those associated dominance, leadership ability, bravery, wealth, athleticism and confidence. These are the things that attract women and turn them on sexually.

The Beta Traits are those associated with kindness, being a good listener, dependability, thoughtfulness, compassion and patience. These all create a sense of comfort and safety for the woman, and relax her.

A Nice Guy is a man that typically has very low Alpha Traits, and a good amount of Beta Traits. This means he can establish what amounts to good friendships with women, but cannot convert those friendships into the sexual relationship with them that he wants. He’s always confined to the Friendzone with them, and watches helplessly in pain and confusion as “less nice” men make easier progress to having sex with his love interest.

A player is someone who has high alpha traits but low beta traits.



You need a balance of both Alpha and Beta male traits in order to be the most successful with women.

Why don't you just stick all your repetitive thoughts in one thread?

Good idea. I will title it Darkphantomx1's repetitive thoughts!

Is this a Note To Self?

Why repost the same damn crap? Over n over?

This post is so insulting to both men and women. So much useless generalisation and meaningless nonsense.

Women are people. Individual with different interests, wants and desires. You don't know what any of them want, til you get to know them. If a woman has preset standards that you don't fit, then don't waste your time. You'll only end up hating yourself. But if you find someone who actually likes you for what you do have to offer, then that's all you need...

I find it quite strange how phantom posts so many of these "what women want" threads, and yet he says he's been very unsuccessful with women

OP; No.

The OP may enjoy The Red Pill reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/
Or the blog "The Rational Male": http://therationalmale.com/

There you will find other men who think as you do. Such talk will make you unpopular almost anywhere else on the internet, including here.

Unfortunately, one bit of harsh wisdom from the manosphere is the general consensus that Game doesn't work for Aspies. PUA exploits men with high functioning autism by trying to sell them a set of techniques that they can't replicate with their social disorder.