I'm going to Talk to that Guy

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I'm going to the coffee house & going to talk to that guy I have a crush on. I must REALLY WANT him if I fix my hair up all pretty for him, I even want to wear jewelry, I don't wear it very much. I never felt this way before. How can this be happening if I talk to him once? He is talking to other customers, but he is not talking to me, why? This is so confusing! The only time he talk to me is when he takes my order. Wish me luck I don't chicken out.

Good luck!

I hope you have a nice conversation.

Good luck!

Good luck!

What did you do with your hair? Show us pictures!

Good luck

Yes

(I never do anything with my hair, so it'd be fun to see what other girls do with their hair for a love interest.)

There good & bad news; the good news is I talked, the bad I talked to the wrong person, at least I opened my mouth & talked. Another bad news, he is not here Maybe he's coming later, the coffee house stays open until 10PM on Fridays.

I don't usually fix my hair up, it's too much work.

I didn't talk to the guy. Now I know why I'm scared & no man would want me, I put up walls.

Don't be so hard on yourself, it's not your fault he wasn't there; was probably his day off or something. Be proud that you talked to someone!

Maybe he'll be there the next time you go there!

please don't beat yourself up over this. there will be other chances.

Kitty, don't feel bad about not talking to him this time. It only means that you have another opportunity the next time you see him. And you don't have to say much on the first try (unless you want to), you can start off small, saying something like "hi" or "has it been busy today?"

The guy came to work later, he was at school. I waited at the coffee house for over 4 hours & then he showed up. I never did this before, waited for a guy for hours, this is not me, I became one of those women that waited for a man. Am I Crazy!??? I don't even know him. He has a really nice name, Jeff.

you're not crazy. just don't get too hung up on someone you've barely talked to.

I stayed out until 8 PM, it was good staying out, my usually time to get home by 5. It's good trying something new, I don't do it too much, but I probably need 3 cups of coffee to stay awake.