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CivilSam
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11 Mar 2016, 12:00 am

So, a few months ago I posted that I was seeing a wonderful girl who shared similar interests as myself. Well, it's been about two months now of us dating online, skyping, and watching shows together and we made it official as a couple today! Next month I go to visit her for 2 weeks and I can't wait! I just wanted to let people know it is completely possible to find someone you click with! I'm not the most sociable person in RL, can only hold a conversation if it is something I am interested in, have social phobia, ASD, and general anxiety and yet I found someone that I could connect with. Sure, it was incredibly hard and involved me trying dating sites and failing at talking to probably hundreds of girls but it is possible! I wish the best of luck to anyone else who is trying or who feels like it might be hopeless, it is not!


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11 Mar 2016, 12:20 am

Good for you! :D


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11 Mar 2016, 2:20 am

I would consider it official only if you stay a couple after the 2 weeks of IRL visit.



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11 Mar 2016, 10:46 am

^debbie downer :mrgreen:

Hope it works out well for you, CivilSam.


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11 Mar 2016, 7:58 pm

:thumleft:

It's always nice to see positive posts in this section.



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11 Mar 2016, 8:01 pm

Beau wrote:
^debbie downer :mrgreen:

Hope it works out well for you, CivilSam.


I was thinking Negative Nellie. :)


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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 83 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 153 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical
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