When should I ask her out?

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I met a girl in one of my classes last year and we talked sometimes, but never talked outside of school. Last time we talked was back in June before I graduated. I just recently started thinking about her again and texted her. I want to just ask her out right away but I don't know if that is a good idea. I asked her if she wants to hang out but I want to let her know somehow that I really want to take her on a date. Since we don't know each other so well I don't know how to ask her out. I have also been wondering what she is thinking about me, like does she consider that I must really like her to want to talk to her again.

What was her answer when you asked her to hang out?

If yes, then just hangout with her somewhere. While you're with her, just get to know her, see what her interest, hobbies, what she does for fun and goals are. Get to know the real her. At the same time however, and this is key, you don't want it to seem like an interview bombarding her with question after question. Throw some cheesy jokes in there. She'll laugh if she likes you whether it was a funny joke or not. Most important BE YOURSELF. This will all help to give you a better sense of where take her on date without having to directly ask.

If it all goes good, then ask her to hangout again but say do you wanna get together for lunch (insert day here) and if she's says yes to that then chances are my friend she could be interested in you!

I hope the best for you.

Alright here's what you need to do.

The "kinda HMU" response seems like she wants to know if you are interesting enough to give you the time to hang out with. In other word she really doesn't have plans but she does not want to go out of her way just to be bored. That makes sense doesn't it? Of course so. Because I rather stay something comfortable then go some where, just to be bored ya know?

BTW, just in case, you don't know the what "HMU means it is; HMU =HIt Me Up as, "yeah text to see what I'm doing at the time, laymen's terms.

Anyway back to what you need to do. You're young like super young, so almost anything will seems interesting other then sitting at home with your parents or hers.

Ya know what, screw all that. Im really GOING TO HELP YOU OUT. Ask her if she's seen the movie "Sister's" with Amy Poehler and Tina Fey, or if she likes and has not seen the The Hunger Games: Mockingjay, Part 2. Tell her you like and want to see them both and want to watch them with her. They are both kinda like chick flicks but as a dude they are both great ass movies.