i really like a girl but she has a boyfriend what do i do

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I really like this girl and i asked her to prom, and i was going to ask her out but yesterday i found out she has a boyfriend. I feel like my heart is broken in half because i've liked her for 6 months and never really told her until i ask her to prom. what should i do? should i wait or move on?

Chances are, if you pursue her while she has a boyfriend, you'll just get your ass kicked. Move on, just be a friend for now.

Stay friends with her until she becomes available.

You've liked her for six months, and you didn't know she had a boyfriend until you asked her to prom? Did she tell you that when you asked? Because it sounds to me like she just didn't know how to say no. That is, she lied. She doesn't like you back. Just let go. I know that's easier said than done but it's all you can do.

Some things have none solution.
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Cal. I agree with part one. stay friends with her.

however, I disagree with you on part two. If she's happy with who she's with then you have no reason at all to feel ill will or wish ill feelings upon this couple.

I'm seriously gonna disagree here with you Esper. If I found out she said she had a boyfriend, I'd do some snooping. if you know any of her friends, discreetly( I don't know if we AS can do discreet, its hard, but managable) ask if she's currently with someone. If it turns out she is, then when they ask why you ask, just ask for curiosities sake. if any more questions arise from it, just say that you were curious and that's all.

THe fact kid that you liked her for six months..............the fact that you liked her for six months. my first girlfriend and I met each other and within two weeks we were together. we both knew it was a match to begin with.


Now my next question. Do you actually know her? Are you actually friends with said girl, and does she know you exist? While these three sound a bit.............uh.......asking you like you're stupid, they're pertinent, if this is a girl who you've liked from afar and had dreams about, keep on dreaming, but if she's someone you know.....then all is good. I just need confirmation.

Rev Sir Gamester.

I'm not a jealous type; I usually don't give a crap about their boyfriends. Now if the boyfriend is a possessive type, then I get worried. It ultimately depends on how strong their relationship is more than anything else. If they're in a faltering one, you could theoretically make a move, but it's best to assess your situation first.

Find someone else to obsess about.
You have no chance anyway if you act like a lapdog.
There are plenty to choose from.
You can still be her friend.
Keep your options open; you may or may not be available when she has finished with laughing boy.
This is your attitude.