Worst things to say to a girl

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Heres another one. I will make a reverse thread as well like what girls should not say to guys.

Some girls don't like it when a man thanks her after intercourse.

Refusing to kiss because her breath stinks is justified.

"hello I make videos for Youtube, please can I pretend to offend you and film it?"

What's wrong with admitting you like Star Trek and Starcraft and other nerdy interests?

I don't have nerdy interests at all so this doesn't apply to me, but otherwise being a 'nerd/geek' is considered cool nowadays and probably the most popular interests of the millenial generation.

As it is something plenty of aspies here are interested in, it is actually a good ice-breaker and narrows it down so they can better scope-out 'their kind' in a room rather than go through tedious, endless conversations with many only to realize you aren't compatible with them.

Better than lying and going home with some woman who wouldn't be interested in the 'real' you.

Fnord's Top Ten List of The Worst Things to Say to a Woman.

10. "... <silence> ..."

9. "I never said that."

8. "That's too technical for you."

7. "Just get over it."

6. "I lost my job and I'm broke."

5. "I'm in jail."

4. "Your sister is hot."

3. "Your mom is hotter."

2. "Is it that time of the month (again)?"

1. "Are you putting on weight?"

"I don't know, what do you want for dinner?" Haha

Never mention her weight.

Ever.

Always blindly agree with her when it comes to her weight, even if you are right and she is 'wrong'.

If she says she's trying to lose weight, yet still eating extremely unhealthy and eating lots of snack and junk food every day, all the time, you keep your mouth shut.

Don't even try to subtly suggest she cut back.

There are other, far more sneakier things you can do, like Fnord says.

Learn to cook and learn to cook healthier meals for her. Ensure you serve her portions that aren't too high.

If she's going to snack on junk foods, maybe don't intentionally buy any yourself and leave it up to her.

This is easy if you are me, as I eat extremely healthy and if I had a girlfriend and shopped for groceries with her, I would NEVER pick-out any snack foods as I never eat snacks.

Any snacks that would go into the weekly groceries would be her doing and not my own.

It might slightly have an influence, as it may mean less junk food being bought, and if she were to ever complain there's too much tempting junk food in the house, while not insulting her for her weight, you can be honest and say you didn't buy ANY of it.

Either way, if she says she aims to lose weight while scoffing down her fifth serving of mcdonalds and alcohol for the week, simply say "Well, I don't believe you're overweight at all, but you have my full support in your goals, but just remember I'll love you just as much and all the same if you find it too hard, which I very strongly believe you will not, as you are dedicated and hard-working."

I've found this is a good way to keep friendships and relationships - simply agree with the other person, pretend to listen to whatever trivial matters they may whine about or rave on and on about.

These are their 'flaws', and if you can learn to deal with them and look at their positives, than it makes things so much more easier.

"You look older than your age".

I'm neither Fnord or Outrider.....

But NEVER mention weight to a woman. It would be a total disaster all around. I should know: I made that mistake!

Hahaha so let me get this straight:

A man can't be honest to a woman? It's either "La vie en rose" or a disaster? He should always shut up on flaws and lies that everything is amazing about her?

Because this is what you are basically saying.

I mean, I see women criticize their men's physical flaws all the time, I see them telling their hubbies on the growing beer belly or something.

I have been criticized by some (not all) dates and potential dates on my physical aspects before.

My haircut got criticized.
My body hair got criticized.
My body shape got criticized before.
My 'glasses' got criticized.
I have even criticized on non-adjustable things such as my height and body frame.

But I can't criticized back something I perceive as flaw/repulsive?

Why I have this feeling that men don't have the right to do that while women can?

Not "viva la rose"--but it's really better not to mention these sorts of things to a woman.

It's not right, from a logical standpoint. But humans relations are not logical.

I feel women should give guys a pass on certain things---and vice versa.

^ Did any wife/gf criticize some physical feature of you before? How do you respond to that?