Too dahm slow

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From time to time when I'm out of the house a girl shows interest in me. But it takes me ages to gauge whether the situation is appropriate , whether she's truly interested and what I should say.

Like tonight I was waiting at a bus stop when I looked in the general direction of two girls one of them nudged her friend. I decided because there was two of them it wasn't good.

What do I say if I think a girl is interested? Should I introduce myself or ask if I've seen them somewhere before

i usually just respond with a simple wave, and ask them if i've seen them before if they respond to that. then greetings...

i have the same questions as you honestly. i'd avoid going for it when she's wih someone else...but you may not see her again.

Start a convo based on where you are maybe. If you see her at the bus again even woth her friend you could say 'are you waiting for the number such an such'

Or you could ask if you've met them before

Yeeah got ya, I'm damn slow and I find peacefulness in that process. Holy whooooray!!

Why? I think it is much better if the girl is not alone. They feel a lot more secure if they are not alone.



Nothing. You just seek her contact again. When you feel there is a mutual interest, you might try to start a conversation, or just continue the nonverbal game (which ever suits you best).

How do you know that there was interest?

does time go by slowly for you too? i'm curious.

^ It takes me ages to gauge whether I'm truly interested in him.

it takes me ages to know if someone is interested in me! that delay cost me something that could have been beautiful.

If you think there's a chance she likes you, do it.

I realized today