Hello there everyone. I am lucky enough to have won the love lottery and am married to a wonderful woman. We have been together for 16 years now, and one issue keeps coming up. She keeps getting hurt (and angry) because she observes that I become "giddy" and "escalated" around other women. At the beginning of our relationship, she called it "flirting" and I would deny it. Now she trusts that I am not out to cheat on her, but she hates that other women keep getting the message that I am interested in them when that's not my intention at all. I can only go around pushing other people away just because they are women for so long, but that's the only thing I know how to do. I keep telling her I don't have good control of the messages I send other people, especially women, but it keeps hurting her. She called me the other day at work and was very angry when I got home. I had been training a female employee and she says she could tell a woman was there because my voice was different. Anyone else ever had this issue? Any ideas how to handle it would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks, ASHFAdude
25 May 2016, 7:54 pm
