making the effort to enrich my dating life, really need plen

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Hi all,I'm writing this post, considering that I've been having problems for a while to get to know the ladies, I don't know whether or not it has something to do with me, or if it's just out of bad luck.



I am hanging out about 2-3 times each week , most likely to nightclubs and bars, It really has been quite hard for me personally, because I'm not the kind of guy who's known for how sociable or outgoing he's. I felt sort of self-conscious and even embarrassed, and it is fairly challenging to me (much more) to talk in all those types of enviroment with the ladies, even thought, I had accomplished it, I've not acquired much succes, would you fellas give me some guidance?

the bar scene isn't really the place to enrich your dating life; it is more for your (casual) sex life.

People (and women in particular) can sense that you are not comfortable, which makes it hard to make any kind of connection.

I recommend that you stay away from bars as a place to meet people, and join hobby groups.
step one is to make friends and to become more comfortable in having regular conversations.

dunno that seems to be like saying, dont go to college, there are so many people doing the same, and it is hardd, so quit already...