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its about a girl and a boy who meets online
a girl is neurodiverse and a boy is neurotypical
they meet on an anonymous group chat and they going well, they exchange their facebook account (the girl account is a fake one, but the boy seems use his real account)
time goes by.. the boy seems develop a feeling to the girl, but the girl didnt notice.. but the boy keep sending the code
one time.. the boy said "i like you" to the girl, but the girl take it as a joke because the boy such playful and the girl thinks he could said that to every girl he meet online. the boy continues explaining "I like you. I really do. If my effort to 'getting close to you' makes you uncomfortable, I'm sorry. But I wont't stop."
Later... they chatting as usual, until the boy seems find the right moment and he said "i wanna be your boyfriend"

- the girl still takes his words as a joke.
The boy kinda stop trying. The girl kinda dislike that.

time goes by..
The boy still likes the girl, they finally had a private chat on their phone. They dont chat much, but one time the boy said "I love you" and the girl just reply with laugh.
- but the girl seems accept that. the boy feels so happy about that, although the girl didnt said that she loves him back.
they keep chatting day by day. The girl is ignorant. The boy always be the one that chat first.
- The boy said that again "I love you. I just do." The girl just reply with laughs
Its kinda awkward. What do you guys think??

I think the guy seems sincere. He seems persistent, too.

I would still be careful, though. I wouldn't give out personal information. If you want to meet, meet in a neutral spot like a restaurant. Don't take him back to your place unless you TRUST him.

It might, or might not, pan out. But it's more likely to pan out than most situations.

they are finally meet once time
but after that.. the girl feels like the boy's attention kinda decreased
hmm

Well it would seem the girl isn't showing any outward interest in the boy so he's starting to think she doesn't like him back so is losing hope there is any chance she feels similarly about him.

Did you actually meet the guy in person, or is this hypothetical?

I meet the guy in person, he came to my place because i show him a pic near my place. I didnt ask him to come, but he is stubborn. So we meet there inapropiately.

It's not good that the guy came without your permission.

Sounds like he's too aggressive to me.

Yeah he was , but after we meet, i think he's not a bad person. Recently i gave him more attention, but he's kinda ignorance. Probably he's havinh some problems and i just have to wait.

Just be careful.