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cricketman123
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07 Aug 2016, 6:35 am

Hi, how can i find a girlfriend. i am 24 years old. I've never kissed a girl before. My Penis is very small and only 3 inches or less when erect.

I Am now though trying to get more confidence. I Wash, shave and am trying to lose weight now and look more attractive. Dating sites are not working so how could i find a gf without a dating site.

I Love traveling and going to events but i am just a bit scared

Thanks



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07 Aug 2016, 7:48 am

Does anyone know what i could do



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07 Aug 2016, 8:37 am

Anyone please help. Online Dating is not working for me. so how could i try and find a partner/gf with my interests. I am trying to get more attractive now



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07 Aug 2016, 11:28 am

Can somebody help please. I don't want to die a lonely man without kids or a partner.

I Hate seeing my friends or family having people and i don't :(

Online dating isn't working, what more can i do :( :( :( :( :( :(



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07 Aug 2016, 5:19 pm

Can someone please help???



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07 Aug 2016, 8:04 pm

What sort of things do you enjoy doing? What places do you tend to frequent outside of your house? It can be anything really, even a store that you regularly shop in.



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08 Aug 2016, 1:52 am

i like traveling but how would that help. do single girls traveling want to talk to a young autistic man



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08 Aug 2016, 2:37 am

cricketman123 wrote:
Hi, how can i find a girlfriend. i am 24 years old. I've never kissed a girl before. My Penis is very small and only 3 inches or less when erect.

I Am now though trying to get more confidence. I Wash, shave and am trying to lose weight now and look more attractive. Dating sites are not working so how could i find a gf without a dating site.

I Love traveling and going to events but i am just a bit scared

Thanks


I wouldn't worry about the size of your genitalia. Yes, a lot of women like traveling and going to events.



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08 Aug 2016, 10:56 am

But how do i know if they are single



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11 Aug 2016, 9:54 am

How do i know if the girls are single though



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11 Aug 2016, 10:48 am

You might try taking things in stages. First focus on just making some friends. When you feel comfortable with that then you might move on. Autistics can have a much slower learning curve with social aspects. Its not your fault. You just have to keep working on it and have patience. Finding a suitable partner can take a good ammount of time.



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11 Aug 2016, 11:36 am

This thing is i have friends that are boys but no girls really



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11 Aug 2016, 12:10 pm

The thing is i really dream for the day when i can bring my gf/partner over to meet my stepdad/mum and my dad/stepmum.

I mean my stepbrother and his gf stay over sometimes at my stepdad/mums house and sometimes they watch movies or play board games, all i can do is sit in my room trying and not succeeding in trying to find a gf.

My stepsister has gone on holiday abroad for the first time ever with her bf and i'm all alone and can only go to the bloody cinama with my guy mates because i have no real girl mates or gf

:( :( :( :(



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11 Aug 2016, 12:25 pm

cricketman123 wrote:
This thing is i have friends that are boys but no girls really


Well that is where you want to get to anyway, to be able to have a girl that is a friend (not relationship). I am guessing you are inexperienced with the opposite sex, and spending time and talking with them is the best way to gain experience. But start with just friends, so there isn't the pressure/stress of a relationship. Who can teach you more about girls, then a girl?



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11 Aug 2016, 12:46 pm

but how do i start and where do i look. i'm 23 years old, nearly 24. i've literary have never had a girlfriend or even held or kissed a girl on hand or lips. My stepbro is 20 and already drives and stays over night with his gf, my stepsister is 18 and has been on holiday abroad. If i don't start soon i will die a lonely man without a partner and kids.

That is my dream



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11 Aug 2016, 2:43 pm

You don't go out and 'get' a friend. You go out and do things, live life in ways that bring you in contact with other people. Then you look for opportunities to talk with people. Among those you meet you hope to find some that you get along with and vice versa. I don't know what you spend your time at but any spent behind a computer is essentially wasted. You need face to face time and experience. Have you completed college? Do you have a job, hobbies, activities you do to keep in shape, etc, etc.