Peacesells wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Americas future?
Not enough "good " men for women. I see women all the time complain about the lack of men to date or marry. But there's tons of men they just don't meet the standards of good middle class man
Most people, rich or poor, have relationships.
Not where I live they dont
Women here won't date someone that doesn't have a good job, car and own place.
Poor women find middle class men because they look good and it's socially normal but I see lots of single min wage men wh can't find anyone. Almost every woman's dating ad, profile or even just hearing them talk they want a real man which they describe as a working well paying job, have a car and live alone. And half also want them to be physically fit. Because they want to go on vacations and eat out few times a week and have the guy be able to be the sole provider for if/when they have kids. End result is a lot of long term single women and men. Some find that magical guy but as many say There's a real shortage of real men, where are all the good men at. Etc
Really tired of it there's lots of men. I bet men like me would make them happy in all ways but materialistic. No I can't provide for them or buy them fancy things or take them on vacation to Europe, Asia or Hawaii, I can't afford to eat out except every few months. But I'm loyal, loving, caring, compassionate, I'd do anything for people I love. I'll cook for them and hold them when they sad. Along with so many other things.
But no I'm worthless because I'm on ssi and work min wage. I'll never own a house and can't afford to drive a car.
All that matters to them is money money money. How they can't see that i dont know. If you care more about what a guy does for work and how much he makes then who he is then you can't possible love him. You love his money.
My family's been poor for generations never stopped them from having families.
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