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slw1990
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18 Nov 2016, 12:23 am

I'm 26 and have almost no experience. Guys rarely show interest in me irl, but another part of it is that I don't feel attracted to very many guys myself. Some guys who are attractive to most girls are not attractive to me and I can usually only feel attracted like 1 or 2 guys at a time. I think I've been on dates with about 15 different guys, mostly through online dating, and felt attracted to almost none of them. That could have more to do with how fake and forced online dating feels to me though. With guys I like, the attraction can be really strong, but when they don't like me or I can't be with them it can be unhealthy for me to like them so much. I also sometimes feel attracted to guys that I don't know, but I heard that demisexuals have to form a strong emotional bond with someone before they feel attracted to them. Most of the guys who I don't know very well seem like someone I might be able to relate to though and hearing about someones problems or bad experiences can sometimes cause me to become physically attracted to them. I also occasionally like guys that most people wouldn't find attractive and don't really seem to have a type. I use to think I did, but I think it had more to do with a certain guys that I would like at the time.



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18 Nov 2016, 6:52 am

Let's conduct some experiments on you.

**Washing hands**

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First experiment:
Now tell us, who you find the most attractive here:

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18 Nov 2016, 7:04 am

Give us some background information + source, man!



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18 Nov 2016, 4:42 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let's conduct some experiments on you.

**Washing hands**

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First experiment:
Now tell us, who you find the most attractive here:

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They all look pretty similar to me, but I guess the highly conscientious one.