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mebradhen
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26 Nov 2016, 8:39 am

So the school year 12 dance is coming up. Everyone's talking about who there going with. So I want to ask my friend ( who I do fancy ) out. Like we are great friend's but IDK how she will response. I don't want to lose any for my small friend group. I'v come so close to confessing my feelings and asking her out but I can't tell if she sees anything in me. Also I've never asked anyone out.


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26 Nov 2016, 8:54 am

Just say you have a high regard for her, and would like her to be your companion for the night at the dance.



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26 Nov 2016, 9:02 am

mebradhen wrote:
Also I've never asked anyone out.


You gotta start somewhere. If she is a good friend of you, she will probably say yes. Asking her out for the dance doesn't mean you want to date her or anything.

Be quick, or else someone else will ask her out! Hand her a flower and be really sweet, she'll fall for you instantly ;)


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26 Nov 2016, 4:48 pm

Ok :) . Thanks


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26 Nov 2016, 8:30 pm

I think you should ask her. You won't know if she likes you if you don't make a move. If she's a good friend it won't change the friendship if she's not interested.


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26 Nov 2016, 11:03 pm

OK... I guess nothing bad will happen.


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