It is possible to simply not have what women want?

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11 Jul 2017, 12:48 pm

I really believe that 99.9% of men have SOMETHING to offer women. And vice versa.

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11 Jul 2017, 1:22 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I really believe that 99.9% of men have SOMETHING to offer women. And vice versa.

That just makes people like me sound even more pathetic, lol.

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11 Jul 2017, 1:27 pm

But what is it that makes women NOT want you?

I used to think there was NO hope for me. So, after a while, I just winged it.

I'm 5 foot 5. I'm not a model-looking guy. I didn't have much charm as a young man. Women used to go "ewww!" at the sight of me---right in front of my face.

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11 Jul 2017, 1:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I could spend an hour listing my faults. Couldn't tell you a single positive thing however. Nobody wants to date a truly worthless person.

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11 Jul 2017, 2:54 pm

Some dudes leave a lot to be desired, so probably.

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11 Jul 2017, 5:53 pm

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Some dudes leave a lot to be desired, so probably.

...Ouch.

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11 Jul 2017, 6:33 pm

auntblabby wrote:

it is a matter of wavelength, we all resonate at our own frequency and other frequencies tend to be discordant when combined with ours, just not compatible. the aspie frequency is far away from both other aspie frequencies as well as NT frequencies so it is a numbers game, there aren't very many other people whose frequencies match ours. that is why so many of us are alone and not desired.

And then there's the Aspie who rejects the affections of a woman who loves him dearly and would do anything for him. And she has no idea why. They are riding the same wavelength too.
http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=348128

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11 Jul 2017, 7:58 pm

Sabreclaw wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I really believe that 99.9% of men have SOMETHING to offer women. And vice versa.

That just makes people like me sound even more pathetic, lol.

i'm a naturalized member of the .1%, I guess. :shrug:

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11 Jul 2017, 8:35 pm

I really don't think that's true. You have lots of offer.

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11 Jul 2017, 8:43 pm

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I really don't think that's true. You have lots of offer.

thank you, mon frere :flower:

you see what they don't. :idea:

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11 Jul 2017, 11:16 pm

If 99.9% of men have something to offer women than why are 10% or 20% of men single?

If I had something to offer women they would have seen it by now.

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11 Jul 2017, 11:51 pm

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If 99.9% of men have something to offer women than why are 10% or 20% of men single?
If I had something to offer women they would have seen it by now.

again, it is a matter of frequency or wavelength. the RIGHT mates for us are far and few between, and ONLY to THOSE particular mates do we have the "right stuff." it's a numbers game.

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11 Jul 2017, 11:58 pm

Then I guess I shouldn't keep blaming myself.

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12 Jul 2017, 12:00 am

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Then I guess I shouldn't keep blaming myself.

please do NOT blame yourself.

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12 Jul 2017, 1:09 am

Ok but it's a hard habit to break.

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12 Jul 2017, 1:16 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:

Ok but it's a hard habit to break.

yes, it will take sustained habitual work, but you have the right spirit. :wtg:

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