I am doing something very wicked right now.....

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I know some will hate me in this thread.

I came cross with a profile with that profile pic:




So obviously she's one of the people who would very bully short guys in real life, I mean, look at the picture: two girls mockingly laughing and from the caption it is obvious they mean they're laughing at short guys.

This is purely a photo of body shaming, and the message behind it is that short men are inherently inferior.

So no, not my type.

But....I messaged her, she messaged back , we chatted a bit during today.

My info obviously states my real height "5'3" - but as usual (as with all the previous dates from dating sites)....they never pay attention to this.

Now she's flirting me and she even flirted my looks/body. She sent me voice messages and saying she's willing to meet me lol - ....and I am like being receptive, playing along subtly but in reality I have no willing to meet her in person.

My wicked plan: I will point out to my height and blow the info to her face in the last moment, and of course with a rejection . Hopefully it will be a life lesson to her not to shame people's bodies in public like that.

Very wicked? Right?

About as 'wicked' as eating a yoghurt that's not low fat.

Which is to say, seems legit. The painting in your attic will remain unblemished this time.

I don't know ... if you are getting along maybe you should just come right out and ask her why she is interacting with you when you are the height you are. She may not care.

She might just get mad at you & be more upset with shorter guys.

I'm throwing in with the 'hate each other then fall in love' thing. It's a tired trope, but it still works.

I'm over six feet and women still don't like me.

I don't care.



You are so innocent, with a heart of child.

Boo, your scheme is so delightfully evil! I look forward to hearing the results.

LOL

I suggest Mr.Boo start youtube channel or blog or something.

That would be like me making Justin Bieber my profile picture when I hate him.

It is reasonable to assume a woman putting a meme against short men as her profile picture would be, logically, against short men.



I'd consider yourself lucky in the height department.

Taller men tend to be seen as attractive, but even if your height doesn't help you, at the very least it doesn't detract from your attractiveness.

FACE OF BOO:

Personally I wouldn't just tell her at the last minute.

Step 1: If it actually gets to the point of a date, you should go on a date with her and when she realizes your height (which would likely end any chances of a second date anyway) you can point out she never asked and it was clearly stated in your profile, so that proves to you she not only doesn't care enough to even read your profile, but also has a prejudiced against height even if she likes everything else about a man.

Step 2: You should do what those popular 'social experiment' Youtubers do and get a friend to have a hidden camera from a distance. If she leaves early or at the end of the date, do a smooth or smart alec one-liner of some kind or some other way to look cool and as if her rejecting you because of your height doesn't bother you.

Step 3: ????

Step 4: PROFIT.

If I had taken it as far as you have, then yes I'd do it. I probably wouldn't have even started a conversation and wasted my time.

If she went to that much trouble with that picture she cares. Maybe she already knows and she's leading him on.

So when NTs do it, it's bullying. When NDs do it, it's a social experiment. Why are we behaving this way toward anyone, exactly? Like it or not, she has a right to be attracted to who she's attracted to. Otherwise we're all wrong for turning someone down. Or maybe that picture is a "social experiment" to see how irate and immature shorter guys can be, wasting their time on superficial people they claim to be superior to. If she's superficial for a height preference, aren't the shorter guys also superficial for staying fixated on their own height? Also, there's a thread dedicated to her, but is she discussing anyone here elsewhere on the internet? Probably not.

To the usual voices here in complaining about being single--if you had a girlfriend tomorrow, would you want her to know how happy you are at "punishing" the "evil woman" with a height preference?

If an NT said NDs shouldn't date because they don't understand social skills and only making dating more complicated, there'd be an uproar here. But, you're all excited for this person to get their comeuppance?

Her height preference is not the problem.

But hey, I never claimed that I am nice.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 05 Sep 2016, 5:30 am, edited 1 time in total.

I believe someone can have a preference, but there is a tasteful way of letting people know what your preferences are - her way is not a decent way. That's why I said I wouldn't have wasted my time even replying to her.