How can I feel like I love someone who I met yesterday?

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This is ridiculous. There is no doubt that I love her. And I know that she has a girlfriend and I went to the launch of her lesbian magazine.

I doubt she would consider me a friend just for doing that and for knowing her for two days but I hope somehow we might become friends.

I don't feel lust for her I just think she is very pretty and lovable. For me she is pretty much as unavailable as it gets.

But more seriously I need to figure out what is wrong with me and why do I feel like this person set a new benchmark for humanity just on the basis of how she looked and acted for so little time. I think that means my brain is all out of whack?

And this is pretty much a repeat of how I felt about someone else and very quickly I was not in love with them anymore. But for today it feels like I just got hit with a bomb made out of that person.

It sounds like you admire her.

Admiration is good.

But don't expect anything more than friendship from her.

I learned that lesson---the hard way.