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The_Face_of_Boo
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20 Feb 2017, 5:30 am

She's in a semi-long distance and seems to be within 'open relationship' (or at least this what she claims) :|

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Sounds like a big big trouble.....but she's hot as hell, damn, so hot. :lol:

Every time some interest comes from attractive women like her, they either turn out to be single moms with 3-10 kids or people asking for unusual things like this.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
Interest coming from a single normal and childless woman? Never ever happens! :wall:

I shall resist the temptation still, this sounds would end up as a big trouble, no? :| And the last thing I need now is troubles.



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20 Feb 2017, 4:47 pm

People in relationships already should probably have the good nature to remove themselves from dating sites I think, I do not believe open relationships especially like that could possibly work. You can not serve two masters!



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20 Feb 2017, 6:37 pm

My opinion is that there are some people who can separate love and sex. Many couples split because one felt neglected and/or unsatisfied sexually.

However, a "in the middle serious" LDR and an open relationship is a bad combination.

I don't think asking for permission to talk to him would be a bad thing. If she refuses, that's a red flag, and you can avoid drama by not going any further.


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20 Feb 2017, 11:26 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
She's in a semi-long distance and seems to be within 'open relationship' (or at least this what she claims) :|

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Sounds like a big big trouble.....but she's hot as hell, damn, so hot. :lol:

Every time some interest comes from attractive women like her, they either turn out to be single moms with 3-10 kids or people asking for unusual things like this.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
Interest coming from a single normal and childless woman? Never ever happens! :wall:

I shall resist the temptation still, this sounds would end up as a big trouble, no? :| And the last thing I need now is troubles.


What is more trouble than loose women are loose women with boyfriends.



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21 Feb 2017, 4:08 am

I suspect it is a revenge thing or something like that.

I sensed resentment regarding her bf.

or she's one of those women who can't accept the idea to have the single status a single day- so they do this tactic from to jump from one boyfriend to another.

In other word, another crazy case.



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21 Feb 2017, 4:15 am

Whats the point either way. If she's not gonna go for you its gonna be someone else.



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21 Feb 2017, 5:43 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I suspect it is a revenge thing or something like that.

I sensed resentment regarding her bf.

or she's one of those women who can't accept the idea to have the single status a single day- so they do this tactic from to jump from one boyfriend to another.

In other word, another crazy case.


I don't understand people like that. I would rather have no relationship than one that isn't fun, peaceful and relaxing.



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21 Feb 2017, 6:08 am

Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I suspect it is a revenge thing or something like that.

I sensed resentment regarding her bf.

or she's one of those women who can't accept the idea to have the single status a single day- so they do this tactic from to jump from one boyfriend to another.

In other word, another crazy case.


I don't understand people like that. I would rather have no relationship than one that isn't fun, peaceful and relaxing.


Well yeah, when she shared me her sexy pictures (not nudes you sickos! Just dressed up/beach pics ) she was like "If you were my bf in long distance with me, how would you forget someone like this?".

Umm...yeah. I ejected.