I really like this girl but she wants a FWB only.

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ironpony
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11 Feb 2017, 7:38 pm

Basically I met a woman online and we did a lot of talking before we actually met, mostly cause I was busy at the time. Later on, we finally met, went out had a great time and hooked up at the end of the night.

The second date, we did the same thing, but I noticed it wasn't as good as the first for her, like something was off...

I texted her if she would like to hang out next weekend, later on, and she said that she thinks I am fun but we don't have enough common for dating. I just played it cool, and said that's cool, even though I was quite disappointed actually, since she was a lot of fun and really cool.

And then a few minutes later, she said that she thinks I am fun and attractive, and is interested in a friend with benefits if I am. So I said sure, we could do that.

A few days later I went over to her place and we hooked up. Even though I really like her, my plan was to get her to like me more, to hopefully get her to want to see me as dating material. Mainly I just gave her the best sex I could.

So far I went a day without calling or texting after, cause I want to play it cool, and maybe get her wanting more. But either way, I still had fun with her that night, even if she is just into the FWB thing. But I would like to attract her more and wanting to see me as more, if possible.

Is this a good way to go about it and keep giving her a fun time this way, since she thinks I am fun, or what do you think?



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12 Feb 2017, 4:48 pm

Do you enjoy the sex with her? vice versa? If so, I would keep at it for now.

Keep your options open.