Losing someone I am attached to

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I have recently become very attached to this guy. He is very accepting and patient and seem generally interested in me. I share everything with him and feel really connected and attached to him. I can even hug him and feel comfortable. However, the last week he has been pulling away I think. He has stopped sending me messages and does not look at me or talk to me anymore and I think he is avoiding me. I am scared to lose him because he is the only one who seems to actually want to know me. I asked him about it and he said that it was nothing I should worry about but I am still scared. What should I do? I can't just stand by and watch him leave me.

Just ask why, whats happening. Becouse what else can you do?

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I'm pushing myself to be better. But what does that mean?

i've never know anyone like me ,so friendly PM's are always welcome .

mebradhen - I did, and he just told me not to worry about it... I don't understand anyting

Then (if you feel it is right) ask why should I not worry?.

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I'm pushing myself to be better. But what does that mean?

i've never know anyone like me ,so friendly PM's are always welcome .

What were you talking about before he suddenly went cold and distant? There will be a reason for it, the hard part is just finding out exactly what it is. Either that or he's scared of getting too close for whatever personal reason he has.

Don't always assume it's your fault, people have their own oddities. He could even be going through something you don't even know about and stressed with something personal.

I know the feeling too well. One person I became severely attached to abruptly became distant and stopped talking, and it hit me very, very hard.