Personal chat openers

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What are some of your personal online dating chat openers?

I'll list mine:

"Hey, I heard you enjoy the beach. Tell me, when do you like to go? "

Hi, I'm [name]. You seem to be pretty cool. What things are you interested in? "

This one I'd say was an attention-grabber :

"Hi, you sound perfect to me. What things are you into? "


Tell me, what else should I try?

Ones that have worked for me;

"Jumped online for a bit while my Ferrari is getting serviced and saw your profile which looks great, care to tell me a little more about yourself?"

"Killing some time on my private jet from London to New York and saw your profile which looks great, care to tell me a little more about yourself?"

"Hi there, been looking for someone to share my 7 bedroom mansion and saw your profile which looks great, care to tell me a little more about yourself?"

Honestly I think it is best to read their profile and come up with an opening message that relates to what you see on their profile. For example, if someone has a lot of travel pics on their profile and they say they love to travel. Then you could say, "That's great you love to travel! What big trips are you going on this year?". Just don't be too generic because you're probably not the only one messaging them so you want your message to stand out.

Reading thru profiles, I'm not even sure what these ladies want from a guy to start a conversation. They all want 'conversation' too apparently, not chit chat.