Why would any women want me?

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my flaws:

bad posture (back and neck, born with it did not get it from too much sitting infront of computer etc)

extremely red lips (looks like lipstick)

little head.

big and deformed nose.

bushy eyebrows.

walking strange.

crooked foot.

ptosis/lazy eye.

my skin is terrible.

i have a weird way of looking with my eyes.

acne.

deformed fingers (they are crooked)

Both legs looks strange.

extremely skinny arms.

long forehead,

birthmarks in the face.

incredible bad at talking with people (i suspect that I have some kind of light damage to the brain)

weird voice.

hairy.

skinny/ugly looking Pen¤s

unibrow.

skin that protrudes at the nails.

Hiatus hernia.

strange / ugly hair.

big ears.

virgin and unkissed even though I'm so old.

few friends (never had a female friend).

Dyslexia.

stupid, low iq.

poor eyesight.

afraid of dogs and cats.

will never have a good job and never have a lot of money.

sometimes there are a lot of embarrassing random leak and saliva out of my mouth.

ugly looking teeth and they are yellow.

Sometimes I stammer.

blinks a lot with the eyes.

licking my lips alot.

extreme dandruff (no schampoo helps me)

sweats a lot and often, i use soap and rollon and try different versions .... but of course its not working.

Snores loud/weird according to my brothers. I sound like a car (?)

sleeping problems. Whick makes me look tired and sad.

no clothes suits me. I look ugly in everything.

long neck.


Etc. I can just keep going. I tried everything to fix my flaws but nothing is working. I am 0 of 10 on the look scale. No women will accept a guy with that many flaws, lets be realistic folks.

In the real world, not everyone is above average. There are low functioning women who would like to date.
Can you figure out which women are "2" on a scale of 10?

Well, you won't get any women with that kind of attitude.

Do you have a long tongue?

then you should probably end the pursuit as you have already thoroughly convinced yourself that you'll be alone. i have to wonder if, even if someone did show interest in you, you'd turn them down just to reinforce your defenses and state of complacency.

not sure what you want us to say, maybe you could have found some equally flawed woman you can relate to, and who can relate to you, but with that mindset you will subconsciously prevent even that.

There’s flawed women? 0.o

it may be hard to believe at first, but they exist just as certainly as flawed men exist.

Let's be realistic, if all these are true then his original problem is not his attitude, and a good attitude won't solve his flaws.

His attitude is the consequence of his failures and flaws.


If you want to help him, start by being real and honest....

Yeah, everyone I've ever dated was annoying in some way.

You only listed negative things. Surely there must be something about you that you like? Figure out those things and try to make those parts about you stand out more.

Standing ovation

Everyone on this planet is flawed when you think about it. Every single one of us. No one is perfect. But it's up to the individual to decide whether they want to focus on the positive or negative things about themselves (and others). Even the negative ones can be improved to an extent. But you can't "fix" yourself to the point of perfection. There will always be something off about you, but you can choose to ignore it.

So it's bad to lick my lips a lot?

Lizards do alright out of it.

This is not the first thread you have complained of your appearance, but still no picture. I bet you are not quite so bad looking as you think...some of the things you mention can be fixed and or improved.

terrible skin?...well try and use good soap when you shower, might have to try out different ones...look into whats good for your skin. I personally like soap with things like tea tree oil to cleanse and lavender because its soothing for the skin. Also get some aloe vera lotion, natural aloe vera lotion though not just some cosmetic crap with aloe vera scent or like 2% aloe vera and a bunch of crap.

For sweating a lot have you tried a deodorant with baking soda, there is one brand called Arm and Hammer that makes that kind here in the U.S but not sure they have that brand in Sweden, but surely they have some kind of baking soda based deodorant..but yeah of all the deodorant i have tried that works the best.

And for dandruff if you've truly tried all the shampoos and none of them work...like actually washed your hair a few times with each one(since one time probably wont actually get rid of it). Then there is apple cider vinegar, just take some and mix it about half and half with water, maybe a bit more water than vineger and rinse your hair with that in the shower. It may be a little smelly till it dries, but the vinegar smell doesn't stay in once your hair dries. I get dandruff and haven't had much luck with shampoos for it in the past, but the vinegar does seem to help. For best results though it has to be minimally processed, organic type apple cider vinegar.

As for acne, there is ointment you can get to help pimples go away, also it would be good to get some kind of face wash soap...or face-wipes/pads that has tea tree oil, that stuff is very cleansing and certainly helps to remove any excess dirt/grime/grease that can be easy to miss with like regular soap for instance.

And get some tooth-paste that says it's for helping whiten teeth, as different tooth-pastes can be geared towards different things.

The other day I was kind of thinking I should put the wanting a girlfriend thing on the back burner until I got a better job and a nice flat, then I came across this...

THE ARMLESS LOTHARIO Man with no arms or legs sued by his wife for having FIVE mistresses and a string of affairs that left her ‘emotionally damaged

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/4226328/man-no-legs-arms-hirotada-ototake-sued-wife-five-mistresses-affairs-japan/