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hale_bopp
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06 Dec 2017, 2:01 pm

Paying for a small ad promoting yourself and asking website owners of sites girls you would like would go to to sell advertising space?

I saw some recently, A guy was promoting himself saying he was looking for a girlfriend with details.

Just said his name, age and interests and area. I’m guessing some form of contact details.

If any of you like, I can even help you with it and give you suggestions, and contact the site owners.

Sometimes old methods are saturated, like dating sites. Maybe it’s time to try something new?

I reckon with the right ad you could be flooded with female attention.



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06 Dec 2017, 2:39 pm

Male - 8 inches.

Somali Banana flavor.



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06 Dec 2017, 4:45 pm

I dont know you still haven’t helpe me like you said :p

I’d accept help with my profiles and maybe my cl ad.

I won’t pay to be a loser on odd sites though, that’s embarrassing. I don’t want to advertise I’m a loser. I don’t want people at work knowing either.

I don’t think anything would help though. Maybe lying could get a date but it won’t get s relationship.



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06 Dec 2017, 4:56 pm

hale_bopp, honestly I think your idea is silly, no offense.

I mean, why girls would even want to click on such pathetically-sounding text ads while they can have 1000 matches with handsome men on Tinder and Okc?

There's only one way to make internet dating (of any type) workable for males again: A mind-control devise that convince more women to join those dating apps, to the point that the female members exceed the number of males by at least 3 times.

Goodnight....



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07 Dec 2017, 8:47 am

sly279 wrote:
I don’t think anything would help though. Maybe lying could get a date but it won’t get s relationship.
Lying works in the movies. A guy lies to impress a girl & in the end of the movie she decides to be with him anyways because she really likes his personality.


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07 Dec 2017, 1:32 pm

It’s not my idea, I’ve actually seen it on sites recently. I guess it’s just a spin on classified advertising.



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07 Dec 2017, 1:34 pm

sly279 wrote:
I dont know you still haven’t helpe me like you said :p

I’d accept help with my profiles and maybe my cl ad.

I won’t pay to be a loser on odd sites though, that’s embarrassing. I don’t want to advertise I’m a loser. I don’t want people at work knowing either.

I don’t think anything would help though. Maybe lying could get a date but it won’t get s relationship.


I’m struggling with my mental health at the moment, though thanks for reminding me. I’ll see what I can find in your area.



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14 Dec 2017, 5:29 pm

Even the ultra wealthy have been known to place paid ads seeking a significant other from time to time.. however, I think that for almost all, if not all, people on this site that it would end up being a complete waste of money.

I don't think that it addresses the underlying reasons some people can't get a date. At all. It would just be a waste of money.

The internet is a pretty level playing field. Anyone can post a dating profile or personal ad on craigslist etc. Many people get dates or hookups. Some people get none. Those people need to address the issues with their profiles or ads, as well as whatever issues about themselves that make them unattractive. If that's improving their looks, do it. Dealing with their depression & attitude, fix that. Improving their communication, work on that. etc.

To me, someone who can't get a date/hookup or response to a dating profile/personal ad paying for an ad somewhere is akin to giving a man a fish instead of teaching him how to fish. It Might get him a response or maaaaybe one date, but it won't make him more attractive or better able to form a relationship. Only working on himself and resolving his own issues can do that.


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14 Dec 2017, 6:30 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hale_bopp, honestly I think your idea is silly, no offense.

I mean, why girls would even want to click on such pathetically-sounding text ads while they can have 1000 matches with handsome men on Tinder and Okc?

There's only one way to make internet dating (of any type) workable for males again: A mind-control devise that convince more women to join those dating apps, to the point that the female members exceed the number of males by at least 3 times.

Goodnight....


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14 Dec 2017, 10:48 pm

But any girl might answer that ad. Any girl. I'm not looking for some random girl, I'm looking for the one.


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15 Dec 2017, 6:17 am

You'd have to be desperate beyond belief to even contemplate that if you ask me.


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15 Dec 2017, 6:19 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
But any girl might answer that ad. Any girl. I'm not looking for some random girl, I'm looking for the one.


Do you honestly believe that?



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15 Dec 2017, 6:29 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
But any girl might answer that ad. Any girl. I'm not looking for some random girl, I'm looking for the one.

"The best time to look for a new job is when you still have one.
The worst time to look for a new girlfriend is when you still have one." - internet wisdom.


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15 Dec 2017, 6:31 am

magz wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
But any girl might answer that ad. Any girl. I'm not looking for some random girl, I'm looking for the one.

"The best time to look for a new job is when you still have one.
The worst time to look for a new girlfriend is when you still have one." - internet wisdom.


That's actually not true, it's alot easier to get a girl if you've already got one, most guys know this.
It's called social proofing.



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15 Dec 2017, 7:00 am

This reminds me of when I called a local singles phone service about 10 years ago. "Hi, my name is Chocolate. I have four kids and I'm looking for someone to treat me right." The woman sounded like she was out of breath during the whole message.



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15 Dec 2017, 7:01 am

Closet Genious wrote:
magz wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
But any girl might answer that ad. Any girl. I'm not looking for some random girl, I'm looking for the one.

"The best time to look for a new job is when you still have one.
The worst time to look for a new girlfriend is when you still have one." - internet wisdom.


That's actually not true, it's alot easier to get a girl if you've already got one, most guys know this.
It's called social proofing.

It's called being a slut and wanting to feed your ego by stealing someone else's partner.