MissChess wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Nothing good will come from this , none of the women here will admit fault of women in general. And men here won’t be brought around to see women as perfect and faultless.
So we just go around in circle. My opinion is women are too picky and most women are aiming way above their level, and thus end up alone forever. According to most women here there 1 guy for every woman so for every loser guy who’s not good enough for women there have to be a woman who’s alone forever cause she deems that guy not good enough.
What I do ask legitimately is why if men such as me aren’t good enough for any woman who do you care if we kill ourself? Do you just enjoy our suffering?
For centuries, women have been bought and sold, treated like cattle, traded away in "marriage" to bear children to strangers in order to cement their families' ambitions. That was not the "fault of women in general."
Yes, the times are changing, and here in America it's generally not done that way any more. You are apparently angry that the end of institutionalized women-as-property-of-men wasn't immediately followed by cultural revolution resulting in men without jobs and property being regarded as equally suitable in comparison to men with jobs and property.
You've stated that women are too picky, and that as a result some will end up alone forever. I agree with you. Many women seem to have unreasonable expectations, and I expect many of those women will either end up alone or change their minds about which men are acceptable. There are also many women who just don't want a man at all. There are also men with wildly unreasonable expectations, and men who don't want a wife at all. This is all well within the range of human behavior.
I don't think the prospect of picky women dying alone and unloved is what's upsetting you. It seems you're more upset about the fact that those picky women don't pick you, and as a result of their choices you might be alone and unloved. I agree that's a hard prospect, but it's not one you can do much of anything about.
Women exist who have reasonable hopes, but none of them is likely to be attracted or won over by bitter, angry diatribes on how women are irrational and unfair to men. In the same vein, there are men with reasonable hopes, but they're not going to be enthusiastic about dating women who spend a lot of time spewing bile about how all men are pigs and all they want is sex.
It is what it is.
And at the same time men were bought, sold and traded for slavemlabor. Women just got bought sold and traded for different uses as they were seen as more valuable then being worked to death via back breakoabor, male slaves built all the great buildings across the ancient world. The buildings in Rome, the payamids in Egypt, every great accent civilization used male slave labor to build their empire. And even in the colonies there were white slaves called indentured setvants who wealthy people paid to bring over in exchange they’d work for them, but the cost of food and board cost more then their income and thus they went further into debt and spent their lives as slaves, even after American became a country such things happen in company towns where you’d mine coal but kept in debt to the company who basically owned you. So. It saying women’s suffering was g bad, but men suffered too. If we went back to 1700s yiu might end up a rich mans wife traded and sold by your family while I’d end up working to death in a coal mine in debt to a your husband. Both men and women who were wealthy suffered and got usedm sold and traded though out history. It was r good to be poor.
Women haven’t been property since 1900ish well well before thst as women could divorce and own property. No no I’m talking about 1960/1970 where women left housewife and in mass got equality. More women go to college then men now, more women then men get high paid jobs, or jobs in general. Unemployment is higher for men then women. I’m angry that feminis fighting to remove female gender stereotypes and roles of attractive (fat movement) but nothing is done to remove male gender stereotypes. If it was women wouldn’t require a well of man. Or atleast thst wouldn’t bee seen as a real man and anyone less considered not s real man. Or w loser. Thanks to feminism the female stereotypes is almost completely gone, fat women are seen as unattractive or losers anymore. So if that could be done why can’t we get rid of male stereotype of having to be well off and manly?
There more women with unreasonable expectations then men with unreasonable expectations. Or atleast there’s more men who while may want a super model will settle for a fat average Jane. Where as a lot of women worn even look at or talk to a guy who they deem beneath them.
Oh no I hope they die alone sad and realiazs it’s all their fault and what horrible superficial people they were, it’s the only consolation I’ll get. That won’t happen though they realize their failure and some guy will take them cause he’s a sap. I won’t if some woman tries to date me in my 40 I’ll just tell her to kick rocks and she should lowered her standards soon and now it’s too late. I won’t be some lady’s past choice consolation prize. Freak that. So now I hope they keep their standards until they 90 and suer depressed as they see everything new they know who lowered their standards with tiers grand kids and kids having fun times. I personally hope to die before 40.
I’ve start d sending mean messages to some such women. Boo hoo all ther friends are married with kidsl well that’s cause your friend accepted reality and took a. Ice guy she could find rather then holding out for me perfect male. So they did it to themselves. They don’t care about the men they deem as losers having to watch tier friends have wife’s and families so why should I care about them?
This is wrong planet, of Craigslist, not OkCupid, not plenty of fish, not eharmony. This a supoort site for people to vent not a dating site. I never expect to meet w gf here. All the women here live over seas. Unlike the women o talk about I don’t go to dating sites and vent how horrible my life is cause there’s no quality men to date and howntheres too many worthless loser men messaging me. Do you think they ok doing that?
Thing is it doesn’t have to be what it is. We could change society. Not all women have high expectations, and most women don’t have to. Women in other society’s and nations don’t have thst expectations. It’s purely a USA thing with Europe have it to a lessor extents so it can be changed it can be made better it doesn’t have to be what it isl
Evil only wins when good men do nothing. Probablemmis no one will do anything to change it. If women in 1910 had your attitude then the feminism movement and women equality never would have happen, they’d just said it is what it is and kept being housewife’s, thank god fornyiu and other women they didn’t just accept how it is and challenged the accepted views. So many bad things would still be around if people just said it is what it is, slavery, no black rights, nazis, stalin, etc. but nonpeople aid this isn’t how it has to be and they stood up and and fought to change the world for better.
But what can we expect from the me generation who only cares about themselves.
04 Jan 2018, 7:17 pm
