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autistic123
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07 Jan 2018, 12:43 pm

Hi, Im 25. I have dyspraxcia. I have never had a girlfriend before. I have never even kissed a girl before or held ones hand. It gets be down so much



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07 Jan 2018, 2:38 pm

All the advice you see on the internet or in books or from people are going to be the same except with different wording. It's just going to be reinforcement.



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07 Jan 2018, 3:29 pm

I'm in the same boat. It is complete hell being forced to look at happy neurotypical couples showing PDA everywhere knowing I will never have that because of my aspergers. I'm scared that no girls will ever want to date me because of my disability. The only way I can think of that might help guys like me get a girlfriend is have a friend "set me up" with a girl whom they think would be a good fit.



autistic123
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07 Jan 2018, 3:35 pm

mjames72 wrote:
I'm in the same boat. It is complete hell being forced to look at happy neurotypical couples showing PDA everywhere knowing I will never have that because of my aspergers. I'm scared that no girls will ever want to date me because of my disability. The only way I can think of that might help guys like me get a girlfriend is have a friend "set me up" with a girl whom they think would be a good fit.


The thing is even though I would Love a girlfriend I realize I need to be happy with myself and enjoy the things I do. Yeah I would Like a Girlfriend one day and Yes It does get me down sometimes but I do like being single and one day I will find the right person.



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07 Jan 2018, 7:06 pm

autistic123 wrote:
mjames72 wrote:
I'm in the same boat. It is complete hell being forced to look at happy neurotypical couples showing PDA everywhere knowing I will never have that because of my aspergers. I'm scared that no girls will ever want to date me because of my disability. The only way I can think of that might help guys like me get a girlfriend is have a friend "set me up" with a girl whom they think would be a good fit.


The thing is even though I would Love a girlfriend I realize I need to be happy with myself and enjoy the things I do. Yeah I would Like a Girlfriend one day and Yes It does get me down sometimes but I do like being single and one day I will find the right person.


Congratulations, you’re already 10 steps closer to finding someone than some of the other guys here.