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Hi. I'm in my early 20s and I'm not into dating id est sitting in a café talking some crap, and I only like some parts of cities where I have been so wandering in the city is risky if there are many people&traffic and ugly buildings because it will no longer be a romantic thing to do. I have most of my life been attracted by females, but also guys. Never have I ever dated anyone.

I like word play, innuendo and stuff just because I like tricky, intricate phrasing. But I don't like flirting because it's not what I always buy into and I mistake it for jokes or people being interested in me or polite or whatever.

Now, what would be the perfect thing to do with a person I love?

I'm confused here because I sometimes don't know how my feelings are called and it could just be lust or fear plus admiration or envy with a pinch of something else, maybe hate; I know for sure my physical sensations point at adrenaline rise.

This guy's parents are both scientists. He studies languages at the same Uni as I do. He's so clever I'm afraid he won't even look at me. Last year I told him as nonchalantly and casually as I could that maybe we should go out sometimes. I had been a devoted singleton so that was not easy at all. He asked me if he could answer later. So he never did. He however would sit next to me at seminars or lectures. He would invite me to watch him and his friends perform a play (they are into theatre) and he once watched my pupils for extensively long period of time. We were alone sitting in the dark. I like his eyes and his non-conventional beauty and would often fantasize about us being together.

However, he doesn't do anything so it's not about dating anymore.

We do have some interests overlapping like fine arts or anthropology or human rights or languages but we're too different and we both fcked up this opportunity so there's no way back.

Never in my entire life have I been so deeply immersed in someone's life and attitudes.

I wonder if he reads this bc he's also a strange person and could be here on WP.

If you have trudged through this... Is there a chance for us, dear WP members?

(not a native speaker)

My response: One never knows.

He seems like he might desire you, but is too shy to express it overtly.

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