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Unwanted1forever
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17 Jan 2018, 12:23 pm

Women I need your help I am looking for a relationship but I’m to chicken s**t to start any conversations what can I do or is it pointless



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17 Jan 2018, 12:39 pm

I'm not a woman.

But I can say that it's never "pointless."

My first piece of advice: never say you are "chickenshit" at anything.



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17 Jan 2018, 12:48 pm

I will do my best are you like a doctor or something



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17 Jan 2018, 12:50 pm

Unwanted1forever wrote:
I will do my best are you like a doctor or something

Idk but he looks like one so as far as I am concerned he probably is.
Lol


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17 Jan 2018, 12:51 pm

Not even close. I've been a data-entry operator for 37 years.

I'm only a clerk.



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17 Jan 2018, 12:52 pm

A data what? What like a computer technician?



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17 Jan 2018, 12:57 pm

All I do is type in data using a PC. I'm a glorified typist, basically.



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17 Jan 2018, 1:04 pm

Oh okay



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20 Jan 2018, 10:16 pm

Is it possible to practice conversations? Maybe they'll start to feel easier after a while. Coming up with some things to talk about beforehand helps some people.



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20 Jan 2018, 10:53 pm

I used to practice conversations with myself.



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20 Jan 2018, 11:26 pm

Practice convo
video record it
play it back and make notes

repeat.

we used to have to do this to practice job interviews in class.



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21 Jan 2018, 3:18 am

Unwanted1forever wrote:
Women I need your help I am looking for a relationship but I’m to chicken s**t to start any conversations what can I do or is it pointless


If you have a female relative or friend with whom you could go over conversations and scenarios —
or who could accompany you to parties or introduce you to friends-

and offer ‘constructive feedback’ (not to the point of bashing u!), it might help build your confidence


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21 Jan 2018, 3:44 am

Hopelessly3 wrote:
Practice convo
video record it
play it back and make notes

repeat.

we used to have to do this to practice job interviews in class.


This is a practice to learn how to be more fake.

Job interviews are fake and total facade and evereyone know that.



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21 Jan 2018, 3:51 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Hopelessly3 wrote:
Practice convo
video record it
play it back and make notes

repeat.

we used to have to do this to practice job interviews in class.


This is a practice to learn how to be more fake.

Job interviews are fake and total facade and evereyone know that.


If being yourself doesn't get you a partner, then you'll have to be fake. That or just give up.



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21 Jan 2018, 3:55 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Hopelessly3 wrote:
Practice convo
video record it
play it back and make notes

repeat.

we used to have to do this to practice job interviews in class.


This is a practice to learn how to be more fake.

Job interviews are fake and total facade and evereyone know that.


If being yourself doesn't get you a partner, then you'll have to be fake. That or just give up.


Damn.... your argument is irrefutable.



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21 Jan 2018, 3:58 am

Unwanted1forever wrote:
Women I need your help I am looking for a relationship but I’m to chicken s**t to start any conversations what can I do or is it pointless



Anyway, your first beginner mistake is in your title “For women only”.

Straight women have no experience in dating women.

It’s the straight men who are likely to have this experience.

So you should seek for advice from other men as well.