Do you keep things that your ex complimented on? One time we went on a date and I bought a locket and he said, "that's really fancy" and I still have it. Ever time I look at it, I think of how happy I was when he complimented me. I loved him. I was very pressured to break up with him. People acted like I could get over him the minute I said, "I'm sorry, but this won't work."
I'm a very nostalgic girl and if it was a negative ordeal I wouldn't of kept the locket, hat, my Viewtiful Joe 2 video game and memories of that awesome feeling I felt when I was in love. He complimented me on a lot of my clothes when we got back to my house so I guess that means to more oblivious people that I should get rid of my entire closet too? Am I supposed to get rid of my video games that I watched him play while we were together? The answer is no because I associate them with good memories.
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“There’s a lesson that we learn
In the pages that we burn
It’s written in the ashes of the fire below”
-Down, The Birthday Massacre