What aspie traits are considered sexy?

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I’m just wondering. I’ll list some I’m familiar with.

* If you talk about your special interests the right way, you could seem interesting and passionate to some people. Unfortunately it’s a very fine line. One moment someone will seem to like me and find me fascinating. Another moment they realize how weird and obsessive I actually am and get cold.

* I guess aloofness and lack of body language could be seen as mysterious and brooding sometimes.

* Because of sensory issues I prefer tighter clothes. That could be seen as sexy.

I like women who are quirky and slightly clumsy. I like women who can laugh at themselves instead of being self-conscious about their “imperfections.” Perfectionism is something that turns me off.

Blunt honesty is sexy as hell.

If I would have to choose what traits of a woman that I like, I would say intelligence, honesty, and strength.

-LegoMaster2149 (Written on March 19, 2018)

I don't like women who put on that "hauteur." Who make everything into some grave thing or other. Who create a pall just by their sheer presence.

Reminds me, too much, of my mother.

Quirky=odd in some way, with a neutral/positive connotation.

Weird=odd in some way, with a negative connotation, usually.

I don't find people who nitpick very attractive. Who harp on every aspect of you. I wish people would let things be sometimes.

I don't like people who exude "positivity" or "negativity."

It bothers me when every little bad thing that happens to a person is a catastrophe.

I don't like people who look me over, and see a slight stain in my pants, and feel compelled to point it out.

I feel people who yell at you in the street in order to embarrass you are "weird."

I feel people who write in an alternative sort of way, and like something like Finnish polka are "quirky."

I don't know how sexy it is but I think people like my childlike enthusiasm and curiosity. And also the fact that I look younger than I am (I am 29 and they assume I am about 19-21). My preference towards red clothes also might be considered sexy. And perhaps some people like it that I don't wear any make up.