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Closet Genious
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13 Apr 2018, 1:23 am

I recently had sex with a girl from my class, who already has a boyfriend. I didn't even make moves on her, but she became increasingly attracted to me because I make fun of her all the time. She kept contacting me on facebook, and then one night invited me over, and we had sex.

What's your stance on having sex with someone who's already in a relationship? My stance is that I don't really care. It's her responsibility, not mine. I'm single, and it's not my job to make sure other people don't screw their own relationships up.



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13 Apr 2018, 1:32 am

Not to be rude here but I can tell your attitudes is pretty obnoxious. Given in other thread I assumed you seek money and physical attraction for a girlfriend and romance. This reflects very well by having an affair.



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13 Apr 2018, 1:34 am

Is she in an exclusive (monogamous) relationship?



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13 Apr 2018, 1:42 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
Is she in an exclusive (monogamous) relationship?


Yes.



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13 Apr 2018, 1:55 am

Well, technically my girlfriend is a married woman- she claims she's not in relationship with her husband anymore but there's no real option of divorce in her country (a very Catholic country that applies Catholic rules in marriage laws). Normally, the guy is still involved with his kids tho.

My girlfriend's sister is in relationship with a local married man who has kids too, so it's probably in family :lol: - she fought him last time because she caught him sleeping with his wife.


This happens more than you think - I had a lot of sexting with girls who have boyfriends , but I often they're hesitant to go for it for real.
There's a new girl who's interested in a threesome with me and my gf, without her bf.

I am not joking when I say that there's a smaller percentage of guys f*****g a larger percentage of women- I know what's going on in the backgrounds. A reason why so much more guys aren't finding anyone.



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13 Apr 2018, 1:55 am

Ecomatt91 wrote:
Not to be rude here but I can tell your attitudes is pretty obnoxious. Given in other thread I assumed you seek money and physical attraction for a girlfriend and romance. This reflects very well by having an affair.


It's alright, it doesn't suprise me that you would think so, in fact, I agree with you.
I definitely wouldn't seek money in a potential girlfriend, and my I only criteria for physical attractiveness is that she would have to be thin.(Which I think is fair, given that I'm in very good shape myself).

I didn't have an affair btw, read the post again.



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13 Apr 2018, 1:57 am

Closet Genious wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Is she in an exclusive (monogamous) relationship?

Yes.

Well, I prefer to only sleep with people with their own morals intact, so I wouldn't be interested in a person like that.



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13 Apr 2018, 2:04 am

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Well, technically my girlfriend is a married woman- she claims she's not in relationship with her husband anymore but there's no real option of divorce in her country (a very Catholic country that applies Catholic rules in marriage laws). Normally, the guy is still involved with his kids tho.

My girlfriend's sister is in relationship with a local married man who has kids too, so it's probably in family :lol: - she fought him last time because she caught him sleeping with his wife.


This happens more than you think - I had a lot of sexting with girls who have boyfriends , but I often they're hesitant to go for it for real.
There's a new girl who's interested in a threesome with me and my gf, without her bf.

I am not joking when I say that there's a smaller percentage of guys f*****g a larger percentage of women- I know what's going on in the backgrounds. A reason why so much more guys aren't finding anyone.


Yep, it's pretty depressing. As a guy who has never cheated, the fact that so many people have so few reservations about cheating scares me. It serves me pretty well as a single guy though.

I'm playing the "bad boy" game on the girls in my class, and it's working so extremely well that can't help but laugh. There's atleast 2 more I could easily have sex with if I wanted to.



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13 Apr 2018, 2:09 am

Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Well, technically my girlfriend is a married woman- she claims she's not in relationship with her husband anymore but there's no real option of divorce in her country (a very Catholic country that applies Catholic rules in marriage laws). Normally, the guy is still involved with his kids tho.

My girlfriend's sister is in relationship with a local married man who has kids too, so it's probably in family :lol: - she fought him last time because she caught him sleeping with his wife.


This happens more than you think - I had a lot of sexting with girls who have boyfriends , but I often they're hesitant to go for it for real.
There's a new girl who's interested in a threesome with me and my gf, without her bf.

I am not joking when I say that there's a smaller percentage of guys f*****g a larger percentage of women- I know what's going on in the backgrounds. A reason why so much more guys aren't finding anyone.


Yep, it's pretty depressing. As a guy who has never cheated, the fact that so many people have so few reservations about cheating scares me. It serves me pretty well as a single guy though.

I'm playing the "bad boy" game on the girls in my class, and it's working so extremely well that can't help but laugh. There's atleast 2 more I could easily have sex with if I wanted to.


And there's a large minority of women who are secretly bisexual, who may like to f**k you...with your girlfriend.


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There's atleast 2 more I could easily have sex with if I wanted to.


Are they in relationship too?



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13 Apr 2018, 2:13 am

So see? You don't need a sex doll after all.



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13 Apr 2018, 2:32 am

^ One of them is



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13 Apr 2018, 2:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
So see? You don't need a sex doll after all.


Not for now atleast.

But it also gets tiring playing the bad boy character all time.
It's funny that it works, but it equally annoys me that it actually works.



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13 Apr 2018, 2:39 am

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^ One of them is



So now do you really realize what's going on among our jungle? If you're having sex with several girls of your class, then you're taking the 'share' of other guys - leaving those guys lonely forever; and it wouldn't be surprising if those who are in relationship would break up with their boyfriends soon to continue having sex with you - and those ex-boyfriends may remain lonely or forever alones for a very long time. Unlike girls (who often get another boyfriend in mere days), It i not uncommon for guys to become chronically-involuntary single after break up.

So there are probably guys out there in your class who may be like lonely romantics like sly/Marknis who would die to have a loving relationship with a classmate but they're rejecting them because....you're stealing their chance indirectly somehow.

The "Alphas don't exist among humans" is a bollocks, we both know that ;).



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13 Apr 2018, 3:54 am

Seems you get together well with girls who cheat on their boyfriends... oh, I remember you complaining about something some time ago...
Yes, they are the same league. Maybe you are just attracted to this kind the way I'm attracted to engineers.

But what happened, have you suddenly become wealthy?


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13 Apr 2018, 4:18 am

magz wrote:
Seems you get together well with girls who cheat on their boyfriends... oh, I remember you complaining about something some time ago...
Yes, they are the same league. Maybe you are just attracted to this kind the way I'm attracted to engineers.

But what happened, have you suddenly become wealthy?


I wasn't necessarily going for them, they were the ones who came on to me.
I'm sure putting on the bad boy persona will attract certain females though, so you have a point. All the females in my class seem to like and respect me though.

I am still poor, but I'm in medical school.



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13 Apr 2018, 5:18 am

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I am still poor, but I'm in medical school.
Are most students in your school male or female?


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