Top 10 Places To Meet Women If You're Under 30

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Before I get started with the list, I would like to say that you're not going to meet women by sitting in your room all day browsing forum sites, jacking off to porn, and watching pickup videos on Youtube. If you want a girlfriend or get laid, then you have to put yourself out there and go interact with women.

So without further ado, here are 10 places you can meet women.


1. Volunteer Somewhere. Volunteering can be a good place to meet like-minded people, and even people you want to date.

If you're sporty, you can try volunteering for the special olympics. If you live in a decent-sized city with a decent-sized college or university, the majority of the volunteers are college students between the ages of 18 to 25. Track & Field, Volleyball, and Tennis are good events to volunteer for.


2. Various online dating sites. There's the traditional mainstream apps such as Tinder and Bumble with many users and is predominantly a hookup app. However if you don't like using them there's always other online dating sites/apps you can try.

There's a phone app called MeetMe, which is similar to Plenty of Fish except it is only for the phone and has a decent amount of users. There's also Coffee Meets Bagel.

There's the traditional dating sites such as OkCupid and Plenty of Fish. There's also Zoosk and match.com

There's niche dating sites. TasteBuds is a dating site which matches you with people based on shared musical interests. SpectrumSingles is for people with autism/aspergers.


3. Find Meetups In Your Local Area at Meetups.com

Meetups.com is a site where people post their groups which anybody can sign up and go to. For instance, St Louis web developers get together, The diehard lovers of tennis group, Alexis Texas fanclub, etc...

You might find a group that you like and has plenty of women in it.

here is the link. https://www.meetup.com/


4. If you're in college, through taking classes and asking them out at the end of the semester.


5. Also if you're in college, by joining college clubs


6. If you're religious, join a bible study.


7. Meeting girls through your friends

Chances are if you're like me and all of your friends are either nerds or animals, then this likely isn't an option.

However, if you have friends who are either popular or know lots of people, then this can be an option. For instance, let's just say you're somehow friends with a sorority girl, well sorority girls typically have lots of "sisters". Maybe you can convince her to help you out.

8. The Dog Park

First off, you need to buy a dog first. (or steal your friends dog just for the day) and then head off to the nearest dog park.

Believe it or not, your dog can be your greatest wingman (wingdog actually) You just train him to run up to attractive girls and sniff and bark at them, then you rush on over and apologize for your dog's "misbehavior" Then you ask her what kind of dog she has, your two start talking about your dogs, then before you know it, you're asking for her number.

8.5. Hitting up random girls on your friends list through Facebook

Ayyyyyy gurl, lemme get dem digits.

jk, don't do that. Facebook is not a dating site.


9. Through Daygame/Cold Approach

What is day game? Day game is basically a form of cold approach where you are going around and talking to girls throughout the day time. (bars, nightclubs, and online dating is not day-game) For instance, you're at a coffee shop and you see a cute girl sitting by herself and you go talk to her, or you're walking down the street and you see this cute girl and you talk to her and get her number, these are examples of day-game.

Why do guys do day-game? Well when you only try to meet people through either common connections or common events such as work or volunteer, chances are there are only a handful of girls that you may get to meet and there is no guarantee that they will be single and actually like you back. However, with day game and cold approach, there are hundreds of women you could talk to and potentially go on a date with. And unlike online dating, you're not competing with dozens of other guys for her attention.

I'm not saying you should do day-game. You will probably get rejected a lot, but if you get good at it, you might have some success.


10. Get rich and famous

If you get rich and famous, you don't even have to chase girls, the girls will chase you.

I obviously don't need to meet any women but if I was under 30, here are three places that are goldmines:

1) Running clubs, especially for beginners. I see plenty of young, attractive, shy women around 25-30. When I did a running class I was the only male to 18 females! It's also a great way to get closer to women in order to understand them better.

2) Dance classes. I was once at the local YMCA and an instructor asked me if I wanted to do a fitness class. I said "sure, why not" and found it was almost like Yoga.... and I was the only man. It was especially interesting when they did partnered upper body resistance: I think they put two women with me to balance it out since men are so much stronger in the upper body.

3) I volunteered at the local college for their Medical Lab Technology students to practice taking blood. These classes are usually 80-90% female and what's even better is in my experience they generally LOVE guys like us since many of them are quite nerdy as well. It was weird being treated like a celebrity: that usually only happens when I am around toddlers or young children. Don't tell my wife but I was once matched up with someone who was practically my dream girl and we got along instantly. Foolish me (at the time that is) never had the courage to talk to her again. Like my wife she was the full package: attractive, intelligent, compassionate and an overall great person and whoever she ended up with is a very lucky man.

I should also mention as part of getting married in my wife's church (I am not religious) I was "voluntold" to attend a few religious classes as a couple. There were a significant number of young women there: some with their parents and others alone. I obviously don't recommend faking anything (I was very upfront about my nonbelief) but don't believe the stereotypes about religious women: they are generally no different than anyone else.

One interesting thing I learned: it has been said that women love men who can care for babies and toddlers. I actually found this worked against me because every time I was near a mother and a baby, women just assumed *I* was the father and hence taken because kids tend get very happy and excited around me.

Unfortunately for those in a situation like the one I spent my whole twenties in, almost all those avenues are beyond your reach if you depend financially on parents who don't think you should be doing much other than studying and what they tell you to, and aren't really into letting you work while they're still paying for your education, which creates a nice catch-22 of dependence.

Well, was he physically very menacing? If not, he must have been good at avoiding boyfriends and male relatives who were And he could still bump into some female martial artist or other capable of making him bite the dust herself.

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