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06 Jun 2018, 12:11 pm

Hello, I just want to say to anybody on here to wants a girlfriend or is upset because they have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

Don't be upset. I am 25 and from the UK, I have dyspraxcia. I used to be really upset that I didn't have a girlfriend, I used to compare myself with other people, that is not the right thing to do. You have to focus on your self.

I am at college, I am doing well with my studies, I have nice friends and even got a birthday cake today from one of my class mates, Am I still single, Yes but I would much rather have what I have now then be with someone who is not the right person for me.

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06 Jun 2018, 2:39 pm

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

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06 Jun 2018, 2:53 pm

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

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06 Jun 2018, 2:59 pm

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

I went to a support group for depression, anxiety & bipolar for a while but I didn't really make friends with anyone. I worked a couple years but only made a couple friends & one blew me off 1ce he quit working there. I had NO desire at all to go to college cuz I s#cked in skewl due to learning disabilities.

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06 Jun 2018, 3:11 pm

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

Ah ok. Well Im sorry to hear that. I suppose that for some people it really is more difficult. How are you now though, are you still single?

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06 Jun 2018, 3:15 pm

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

Ah ok. Well Im sorry to hear that. I suppose that for some people it really is more difficult. How are you now though, are you still single?

I've been living with my current girlfriend for 5 & a half years now. I met her on this forum. She sent me a PM after reading lots of my posts. I haven't made any friends here but I haven't really tried. I still have one friend in Louisiana but I only see him about 1ce a year now since I moved.

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06 Jun 2018, 3:34 pm

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

Ah ok. Well Im sorry to hear that. I suppose that for some people it really is more difficult. How are you now though, are you still single?

Awww that is really nice

Do you both want kids in the future if you don't mind me asking.

Wow you live in the USA, I keep forgetting this is mainly a US Site. Where in the US are you from if you don't mind me asking

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06 Jun 2018, 5:57 pm

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

nick007 wrote:

I was pretty upset about not having a girlfriend when I was single but I was NOT comparing myself to my peers. I was lonely & wanted someone to share my life with. I had none or very few friends.

But surely there was a way you could have found friends. Did you work, did you go to groups. Go to college?

Ah ok. Well Im sorry to hear that. I suppose that for some people it really is more difficult. How are you now though, are you still single?

Awww that is really nice

Do you both want kids in the future if you don't mind me asking.

Wow you live in the USA, I keep forgetting this is mainly a US Site. Where in the US are you from if you don't mind me asking

Thanx

I don't want kids but she kind of does. She knows she'd have a hard time with it rite now cuz of various mental & physical issues.
I'm from Louisiana & moved to Vermont to be with Cass. I felt trapped living with my parents so I was very willing to relocate.

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06 Jun 2018, 6:10 pm

How’d you save enough to move?

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06 Jun 2018, 6:13 pm

Vermont has its virtues, Louisiana has its virtues.

I think, all in all (except for some winters), I'd rather live in Vermont.

Are you near the Burlington area, Nick?

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06 Jun 2018, 6:34 pm

Samtheman123 wrote:

Don't be upset. I am 25 and from the UK, I have dyspraxcia. I used to be really upset that I didn't have a girlfriend, I used to compare myself with other people, that is not the right thing to do.

I have a girlfriend and I still compare myself with other people

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07 Jun 2018, 12:36 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:

Samtheman123 wrote:

Don't be upset. I am 25 and from the UK, I have dyspraxcia. I used to be really upset that I didn't have a girlfriend, I used to compare myself with other people, that is not the right thing to do.

I have a girlfriend and I still compare myself with other people

I think comparing yourself a little bit is ok but if you compare yourself lots and are depressed about it thats when it gets bad. Focusing on yourself is the most important

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07 Jun 2018, 8:17 am

sly279 wrote:

How’d you save enough to move?

She has a Section 8 housing voucher so it mostly just cost me to travel back & forth & to ship my stuff up here.

kraftiekortie wrote:

Vermont has its virtues, Louisiana has its virtues.

I think, all in all (except for some winters), I'd rather live in Vermont.

Are you near the Burlington area, Nick?

That is true.
The winters are my least favorite thing about living here other than lack of good seafood.
Yep I am thou we may move to Middlebury when the lease runs out in half a year. It'll be closer to Cass's family.

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