Just because you're single doesn't mean you're loveless.

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Correct, vast majority of population is concentrated in the smaller European part, and since "ethnic Russians" take race very seriously, they are actually racist towards those people who are from Asian parts of the country (and former Soviet Union). But the reality, of course, is there is a huge diversity in people who live in Russia aside from the so- called "ethnically pure" Russians.

Either way it looks like a low road for people who aren't self-actualized enough to just respect each other.

nope, on 4chan:

Remember, something like 50% of white women voted for Trump, and that was after the tape of him admitting to being a "p**** grabber" came out. Sometimes women hate women, too. And sometimes women who hate women love men who also hate women.

It's not uncommon in communities where women aren't valued, like fundamentalist churches, for women to be some of the worst offenders in regards to misogyny and policing other women. It doesn't make it right or particularly understandable, it's just a feature of humanity that we absorb what we're taught whether it's useful or not.

I never claimed where it originated, just where it is popular now. Perhaps it started on 4chan, but it is currently very popular on incel and manosphere forums.

And here is the definition, for those still wondering:

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define. ... =Soy%20Boy

It's very derogatory and sexist against men (only REAL MASCULINE MEN aren't "soy boys")--but apparently that kind of comment is OK by some moderators...

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"to come from" is synonymous with "to originate"

Look, it is very common on incel and MRA forums. I know you have a problem with me personally, but you can't deny the truth of something just because I said it and you don't like me.

This 4chan internet cancer is basically the same line of thinking this thread runs contrary to, that single people are inferior in contrived social Darwinist terms.

If I were attracted to or comfortable with anyone or anything conventional I wouldn't even be here, yet some guy is still here to give me s**t for it.

I haven't ever been on, but isn't 4chan one of the forums incels still actively use?

I wouldn't really call it a forum, it's more of a catch all for all the worst parts of the internet.

Those "incel" people really need to "get a life." I don't even know why we're taking them so seriously.

They are clowns, caricatures, what have you.....

When your depressed and hate yourself, it can be easy to have that transform into something else like hating others. You join the wrong crowd, and they reinforce some negative idea constantly until you passionately believe it is the answer. Mostly I just feel sorry for them because maybe if I had a different upbringing and taken a couple wrong turns, I could've become something similar. It's just plain sad that anyone ends up in such a state that they get consumed by hate.

When their terms start showing up here I think it's very important to talk about it. The way they think is very toxic and they are trying to spread it to other guys, like a cult.

Their ideology is stupid but it is apparently hard to resist for a certain subset of guys with social problems because it gives them a target for all their frustrations that is outside themselves, it gives them someone to blame for their problems.

We are taking them seriously because they are a big problem for the autistic community, both because people here could be vulnerable to getting sucked into that mentality and also autistic women could be in danger from autistic men who get sucked into that mentality. It's a problem that we need to be discussing for the sake of all of our safety.

I agree we have to prevent people from getting sucked in.

Saying this, I don't believe anybody here is actually of that mindset.

I guess making note of it is a useful thing.

I've never used 4chan, but from what I've heard there is definitely a large contingent of manospherians there. So it could very well have started on 4chan among guys with that sort of mentality, the incel/manosphere/MRA types that hate women. It is certainly a very hateful term, both against men (for not being manly enough) and against women (suggesting "feminized" men are less-than because they are like women.)

If guys here aren't of that mindset, they should probably worry if they're using terms that come from that mindset. Maybe they should think about why they think using those sorts of insults are OK, and what that says about their thinking about men and women and how messed up it might be. Calling someone here a "soy boy" isn't just a personal insult and breech of the rules--it's a statement about toxic masculinity.