BeaArthur wrote:
Just go and enjoy yourself. On a third date, it wouldn't be unusual for you to expect a little closeness. If she balks, don't get upset, but calmly ask her if she prefers no touching. Let her answer guide you.
If she truly only wants friends, will you continue to enjoy her company? Most autistic people could use another friend. If you are only interested in a romantic future, and she's not interested, you can politely say "we want different things, but it has been a pleasure getting to know you," and don't call her again.
She really does seem nice and might have female friends she could introduce me to.....
She also mentioned to me having set up an online dating account and wanting to have kids....
Maybe she really just does prefer no contact.