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ThisAdamGuy
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22 Aug 2018, 10:36 pm

I'm talking to a girl who seems really cool, but her work schedule is 6am-2pm mon-fri. Mine is 3pm-midnight tue-sat. That leaves very little time when we'd be able to spend time together, assuming things get that far. What do you guys think, is it even worth trying?


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23 Aug 2018, 2:02 pm

In my opinion, it certainly is worth a try. How often do you talk to her and how often do you see each other outside of where you work?


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23 Aug 2018, 2:12 pm

That gives you Saturday mornings and the whole of Sunday. Sounds good to me!

You guys won't always gave the same jobs either.

It's worth taking a chance on.



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23 Aug 2018, 2:19 pm

Always prepare yourself ahead of time in order to avoid anything awkward between you and her that may happen.


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23 Aug 2018, 2:55 pm

You need to change your job because this work schedule will kill your social life and energy entirely.



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23 Aug 2018, 3:18 pm

We don't work together. We work for completely different companies. It's just that our schedules don't line up.

@Boo, up till now I've been happy with this schedule. No traffic coming in and out of work, and I get to sleep in every day. Getting a girlfriend I can't be around is literally the only downside to it. I've been looking for a new job anyway, but I work at the Walmart home office in the middle of Walmart country. There are no other jobs here.


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23 Aug 2018, 3:41 pm

Here, you can do this! (I have no info on how far your workplaces are).

Weekdays:
~midnight-2am: Cuddling/Sex time, if you still have the energy to get it off.
3am-5am: Her sleep time
3am-11pm: your sleep time.
6am-2pm: Her work time
~4pm-8pm: Her sleep time's continue.
10pm-midnight : Her texting time /"bothering you with drama while you're still at work" time.

Sunday: Quality time


Not sure if that is healthy tho....