How do I get my aspie girl back?

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21 Sep 2018, 9:32 pm

She said she wanted the relationship to end today.

But she couldn't even tell me why.

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21 Sep 2018, 10:00 pm

I'm sorry to hear that, but your singular question is impossible for anyone here to answer on its face and would be speculative at best even if you provided a detailed recounting as you see it.

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21 Sep 2018, 10:17 pm

It doesn't really matter. There seems to be something wrong with her brain. And whatever it is she has no desire to work on it. She didn't say it but I'm realizing she's so screwed up that she would rather die alone then put up with me.

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21 Sep 2018, 10:44 pm

Stop abusing her for starters. Aspie-chics also do not like to be criticized nor have their preferences criticized. Secondly, stop blaming her, for all of your short-comings (e.g.: saying that she is screwed up in the brain). Thirdly, pray that I (or someone like me) don't come swoop her off her feet from under you, and make her mine instead. Many so-called NTs are notorious for their projections upon others.

ehymw wrote:

she would rather die alone then put up with me.

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22 Sep 2018, 12:07 am

ehymw wrote:

Narcissism and devaluation with a touch of self loathing. I couldn't say why she broke up with you but could emotional immaturity be part of it? I don't mean this as an attack but your comment is something I would more expect of a teenager or young adult than someone your age, and women tend to find that type of thing a turn off.

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22 Sep 2018, 12:26 am

ehymw wrote:

I thought you said you didn't know why? This is why ^. The above sentiment would have had me running from Day One.
Your attitude is the reason.

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22 Sep 2018, 3:07 am

ehymw wrote:

Yeah, this comment really speaks for itself.

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22 Sep 2018, 3:28 am

Agreed with above replies.

She isn't 'yours', or a possession to be reclaimed.

quite an extreme
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22 Sep 2018, 5:52 pm

ehymw wrote:

There seems to be something wrong with her brain. And whatever it is she has no desire to work on it. She didn't say it but I'm realizing she's so screwed up that she would rather die alone then put up with me.

If your girl calls you an idiot towards other people and wants you become a bisexual pervert because currently there seems to be something limited in your brain would you like it? There is no difference. It's quite impossible for her to change the way she feels except that she feels bad for you now after expecting such thing from her. You have to accept and like her as she is or to leave her. :mrgreen:

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22 Sep 2018, 5:55 pm

Personally, I'd rather "die alone" than have a boyfriend speak that way about me before or after a break-up.

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22 Sep 2018, 6:10 pm

ehymw wrote:

You needed sacking.

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