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09 Nov 2018, 3:00 am

Why is it that when I have a crush on a guy, he is younger than me, he is Very Young? This happens alot.

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09 Nov 2018, 3:03 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

Why is it that when I have a crush on a guy, he is younger than me, he is Very Young? This happens a lot.

What are the common qualities about them? What qualities draw you to them?

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09 Nov 2018, 3:50 am

Well how old are you? And how old are the guys you have crushes on?

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09 Nov 2018, 9:03 am

As long as the man is an adult, there's nothing wrong with having a crush on a man if the woman is older or even much older.

Many older women like younger guys. Many younger guys like older women. That's the way the world rolls sometimes.

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09 Nov 2018, 1:27 pm

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Many older women like younger guys.

They're called cougars & there's cougar dating sites where older women can meet younger men or vice versa

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09 Nov 2018, 2:58 pm

My girlfriend is 8 years older than me.

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09 Nov 2018, 3:15 pm

I've had this problem my whole life, because I don't know what people my own age look like.

As I've gotten older I've had to research what people my own age look like to help me pick prospective dates.... like how faces age. in their thirties, peoples' faces start to get just a little bit of lines, but not much yet.

But I remember being 13 and thinking 13 year old boys looked too old, because i didn't know what 13 year olds looked like (even tho i was one...)

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09 Nov 2018, 3:27 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:

Why is it that when I have a crush on a guy, he is younger than me, he is Very Young? This happens a lot.

Younger men are usually healthier, stronger, more impulsive, and have greater stamina than us old fogies.

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09 Nov 2018, 5:30 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Well how old are you? And how old are the guys you have crushes on?

I’m 48 & have crushes on men that are late 20s-30s, my latest crush is 29.

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09 Nov 2018, 5:35 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

My latest crush is 29 & has a girlfriend.

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09 Nov 2018, 10:51 pm

Whoa...you’re older than I am. I tend to fall for older women.

(Wasn’t gonna say anything earlier, but this very well might be a game changer. )

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09 Nov 2018, 11:03 pm

AngelRho wrote:

Whoa...you’re older than I am. I tend to fall for older women.

(Wasn’t gonna say anything earlier, but this very well might be a game changer.

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I maybe be 48, but I look VERY YOUNG, people tell me I look in my late 20s - early 30s.

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10 Nov 2018, 7:04 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

AngelRho wrote:

Whoa...you’re older than I am. I tend to fall for older women.

(Wasn’t gonna say anything earlier, but this very well might be a game changer.

)

I maybe be 48, but I look VERY YOUNG, people tell me I look in my late 20s - early 30s.

I’ve never been one to complain.

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10 Nov 2018, 7:33 am

I'm 54 and all of my favorite tennis players, including the one in my user name, are in their 30s. I could be said to like younger men, too. If I do ever date, it is very likely I will find a man in his 30s.

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10 Nov 2018, 9:15 pm

Truthfully, I don't think many men in their 30s would seek out women in their 50s.

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10 Nov 2018, 11:09 pm

I like women younger than me, think its just a man thing. We are wired to see youth as beauty.

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