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samuraivader
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17 Nov 2018, 8:24 pm

Hi! I'm an aspie and it happens that I like an aspie girl that I knew recently (I don't know for sure that she is asperger but is quite noticeable). Has it happened to you? What do you do in these cases?

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17 Nov 2018, 8:34 pm

Notorious?

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samuraivader
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17 Nov 2018, 9:07 pm

Bad english, LOL

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18 Nov 2018, 1:12 pm

samuraivader wrote:

No, I have never fallen in love with an aspie girl. As a rule I'm not looking for a partner with autism/aspergers; I'm more inclined towards alternative girls.

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18 Nov 2018, 1:19 pm

Ask her out?

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uniqueUsername
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18 Nov 2018, 1:49 pm

I really like the idea of having an autistic girlfriend. I just wonder if it would really work ...
My previous girlfriend was a big support for me, as she could explain the world to me.
(might sound stupid but she could make sense of it, for me.)

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18 Nov 2018, 2:59 pm

My 2nd & current girlfreind are on the spectrum & I met them both on this forum. I tend to have less communication issues with Aspie women than NT women. I have LOTS of misunderstandings with NT women because they are not direct enough(they play mind-games) & they take what I say the wrong way & find offense when I've meant none.

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Arevelion
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18 Nov 2018, 3:12 pm

(shrugs) I married my aspie crush, and now we have a kid.

samuraivader
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18 Nov 2018, 10:33 pm

Arevelion wrote:

(shrugs) I married my aspie crush, and now we have a kid.

Your kid is Asperger? I don't judge you but I think I would feel bad myself if I 'gift' the Asperger to someone else.

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18 Nov 2018, 10:50 pm

Yeah but I assume you'd be better able to understand a kid who's not NT because you know what they're going through. After all, you've been there before.

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