Relationship Advice ASAP!

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Hi,



me and my girlfriend arranged to go to a quiz on Tuesday but the other day I said to her why don’t you ask your new friend to go with you? (As she was saying to me she don’t know when she will find time to do things with her) Thinking she would say no I want to go with you etc.. and when I explained that to her she said she had already asked her friend to go and she won’t go with me anymore.. she won’t even let me go with them all 3 of us together as a compromise I tried to meet her halfway..

this quiz night was our thing we arranged together and now she’d rather send me home early so she can go with her friend.. to me that isn’t fair we’ve arranged this weeks i don’t understand why she can’t just tell her friend she’s going with me and there was a misunderstanding.. And now she’s saying she don’t even know if she wants to go etc with friend it just seems excuses to me!

If I did the same thing with one of my friends for example did something we usually do together she wouldn’t be happy.. as she hasn’t before when I’ve suggested going to watch a movie at the cinema she didn’t want to see at the cinema she went mental.. that suggests to me that she wants it all her own way? I would do it for her.. like didn’t go to cinema as she wasn’t happy yet she’s threatening to finish the relationship with me if I don’t back down and let her go with her friend how is that fair?! Seems controlling behaviour!



Let me know what you guys think Is she being unfair or am I?



thanks

^...And it doesn't have to be equal to be fair...