11 Great Places Where You Can Meet Women

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04 Nov 2018, 9:30 pm

No, a girl won't magically appear in your life if you stay home all day browsing forums, jacking off to porn, or watching Netflix all day. If you want a girlfriend or simply want to get laid, you actually need to get out there and interact with women.

Which is why, i'm going to give you 11 possible places you can go to if you want to meet women.

So without further ado, here is da list!

Volunteer Somewhere. Volunteering can be a good place to meet like-minded people, and even people you want to date. A good place to volunteer is somewhere with a high concentration of women and ties in to your interests.

If you're sporty, you can try volunteering for the special Olympics. If you live in a decent-sized city with a decent-sized college or university, the majority of the volunteers are college students between the ages of 18 to 25. Track & Field, Volleyball, and Tennis are good events to volunteer for. Volleyball obviously has lots of girls, and track & field has many volunteers so chances are you will meet girls.

If you're into animals, you can try the humane society.

Various online dating sites. There's the traditional mainstream apps such as Tinder and Bumble which has many users and is predominantly a hookup app. However if you're not having much success on there, there's always other online dating sites/apps you can try.

There's a phone app called MeetMe, which is similar to Plenty of Fish except it is only for the phone and has a decent amount of users. There's also another similar dating app called Coffee Meets Bagel.

There's the traditional dating sites such as OkCupid and Plenty of Fish. Other well-known online dating sites include Zoosk and match.com

There's niche dating sites. TasteBuds is a dating site which matches you with people based on shared musical interests. SpectrumSingles is a dating site for those on the autism spectrum.

Find Meetups In Your Local Area at Meetups.com

Meetups.com is a site where people post their groups around your location to which anybody can sign up and go to. For instance, St Louis web developers get together, The diehard lovers of tennis group, Alexis Texas fanclub, etc... Chances are you might find a group that interests you, so you should check the website out,

Hey, you might meet the love of your life. ;)

here is the link. https://www.meetup.com/

If you're in college, through taking classes and asking them out.

Chances are if you're taking a class with at least 20 or more people, there's a high chance that there's at least a couple of cute girls in there. So why not take advantage of it?

If You're Between 18 to 25, By Joining College Clubs.

Depending on the size of the nearest university, there may be dozens of college clubs that you can join and chances are there is one that ties in to your interests. Clubs are a good way to not only meet girls, but also make some friends. You probably won't meet the love of your life joining the chess club or world of warcraft club though.

This works best if you're between the ages of 18 to 25. If you're older, unless you look pretty young for your age, you will probably start to stand out and be noticeably older than everyone else there.


If you're religious, join a bible study.

There's youth groups for those who are still in high school. But there's also college bible studies and even those for adults 30 or older.

Salsa/Dance Classes

The great thing about dance classes is that they are usually dominated by women. And even if you don't meet anybody, at least you have learned how to dance, ladies love a guy who can dance :)

Meeting girls through your friends

Chances are if you're like me and all of your friends are either nerds or animals, then this likely isn't an option.

However, if you have friends who are either popular or know lots of people, then this can be an option. For instance, let's just say you're somehow friends with a sorority girl, well sorority girls typically have lots of "sisters". Maybe you can convince her to set you up with one of her sisters. You'll basically be a part of the family.

The Dog Park

First off, you need to buy a dog first. (or steal your friends dog just for the day) and then head off to the nearest dog park.

Believe it or not, your dog can be your greatest wingman (wingdog actually) You just train him to run up to attractive girls and sniff and bark at them, then you rush on over and apologize for your dog's "misbehavior" ;) It's easy to start a conversation as well. All you have to do is ask her what kind of dog she has, your two start talking about your dogs, then before you know it, you're asking for her number.

Hitting up random girls on your friends list through Facebook

It's simple, just go through every attractive girl on your friends list and write them saying, Ayyyyyy gurl, lemme get dem digits. Don't worry, you'll only end up on Bye Felipe just a couple of times.

jk, don't do that. Facebook is not a dating site.

However in the near future, Facebook will be launching a dating feature on their site. You'll finally be able to hit up girls without being a creep.

Through Daygame/Cold Approach

What is day game? Day game is basically a form of cold approach where you are going around and talking to girls throughout the day time. (bars, nightclubs, and online dating is not day-game) For instance, you're at a coffee shop and you see a cute girl sitting by herself and you go talk to her, or you're walking down the street and you see this cute girl and you talk to her and get her number, these are examples of day-game.

Why consider doing day-game? Well when you only try to meet people through either common connections or common events such as work or volunteer, chances are there are only a handful of girls that you may get to meet and there is no guarantee that they will be single and actually like you back. However, with day game and cold approach, there are hundreds of women you could talk to and potentially go on a date with. And unlike online dating, you're not competing with dozens of other guys for her attention.

I'm not saying you should do day-game. You will probably get rejected a lot, but if you get good at it, you might have some success.

Get rich and famous

If you get rich and famous, you don't even have to chase girls, the girls will chase you.



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05 Nov 2018, 1:26 am

Yeah, I've seen this exact same post word-for-word several times now.

Here's one you posted earlier:
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Here's another one you posted earlier:
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05 Nov 2018, 7:41 am

ShadowProphet wrote:
No, a girl won't magically appear in your life if you stay home all day browsing forums
I met both my exes & current girlfriend on forums. I had NO luck but bad trying to get a woman offline.


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05 Nov 2018, 9:35 am

I'm waiting for the "I-do-all-of-that-and-none-of-it-works-for-me" reply posts.



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07 Nov 2018, 12:22 am

11 more places where you can meet women

  1. Funerals
  2. In court
  3. Nude beaches
  4. Interventions
  5. Revolutions
  6. Riots
  7. Refugee camps
  8. Cruise Ships
  9. Alcoholics Anonymous
  10. Civil War reenactments
  11. Comic Con


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07 Nov 2018, 12:28 am

^ I met my best friend at a funeral.
Highly recommended :star:


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18 Nov 2018, 4:19 am

You seem to like writing these posts more than people like reading them



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18 Nov 2018, 3:22 pm

Don’t forget prison release days. Just hang out outside the women’s prison
Lol
This is joke thread right?



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18 Nov 2018, 3:32 pm

sly279 wrote:
Don’t forget prison release days. Just hang out outside the women’s prison
Lol
This is joke thread right?
I would of volunteered at a homeless shelter or something if I would of had transportation to one. I'm actually being completely serious.


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18 Nov 2018, 4:05 pm

I met my boyfriend at a nursery school, we bumped in to each other and he spilled coffee over me. He's a really slow drinker and it was cold which was lucky for me.



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19 Nov 2018, 4:34 am

Not too bad advice, but a too big focus on getting her number or asking for a date.

For instance, if you are in college, you can easily meet the same woman every day and continuously "hit" on her every day without much effort. That's almost the ideal way for an ND to play the "at a distance game". Almost guaranteed to lead to a good romance unless you sabotage it by asking her out.

Dancing is also a good idea. It's almost the same as college, but with the additional benefit that you can ask women for a dance just for fun, and you will almost never be rejected (unless you're a really bad dancer).

Another thing is that at least some ND women like being outdoors, and so you can meet them outdoors (at a distance of course), and play games with them there. That's also a good setup for building a mind-to-mind connection.

Yes, and I like the nude beach idea too. :mrgreen: