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Kitty4670
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26 Nov 2018, 5:05 pm

I met a man on OkCupid, we just going be friends, he told me he doesn’t want anything serious, but he said stuff that a friend would not say, we should take this slow. In one of my pictures, it showed my top, he loved what he saw. I told him that I have Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he accepted me for who I am, I cannot believe this is happening.



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26 Nov 2018, 5:39 pm

It sounds like he wants you as a friend with benefits. Don't fall for it unless that's what you're looking for as well.



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26 Nov 2018, 5:56 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
I met a man on OkCupid, we just going be friends, he told me he doesn’t want anything serious, but he said stuff that a friend would not say, we should take this slow. In one of my pictures, it showed my top, he loved what he saw. I told him that I have Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he accepted me for who I am, I cannot believe this is happening.
Kitty, be careful. While every man has the potential to be good or bad, it's best to be exceptionally cautious with strangers. Showing him pictures ... I dunno ... you want to be honest with him, but please don't show too much.

Again, please be careful.



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26 Nov 2018, 6:23 pm

If I've learned anything, it's not to get your hopes up for something that may not happen.



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26 Nov 2018, 7:57 pm

What do you mean----your "top?"

Do not give this guy any of your personal information, Kitty.

Does he live near you?



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26 Nov 2018, 8:10 pm

You're a nice woman, Kitty. I know you are.

Just be careful. I wish you could find somebody in your town.



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26 Nov 2018, 8:13 pm

Kitty -- from one woman to another, please be careful! He said he just wants to be friends but then said things that imply more, and was open to viewing top photos? This sounds worrisome to me. I'd love it to be legit and for you to meet someone special but please don't send photos or personal info. You can never get those back if you change your mind.

You're far too sweet and sensitive to risk anything going wrong.

I agree with the other people who replied to you. Please don't let your guard down. If you do meet, do so in a public place with a friend at your side and even then, don't give out personal info.

I want the best for you Kitty, so please be cautious.


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26 Nov 2018, 8:14 pm

8)

congratulations but also be wary.


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26 Nov 2018, 8:15 pm

Listen to Isabella, please Kitty.



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26 Nov 2018, 9:54 pm

Be careful. If this was meant to be, it won't hurt anything to go very, very slow.


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26 Nov 2018, 10:28 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
What do you mean----your "top?"

Do not give this guy any of your personal information, Kitty.

Does he live near you?



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26 Nov 2018, 10:31 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What do you mean----your "top?"

Do not give this guy any of your personal information, Kitty.

Does he live near you?



My shirt


Oh goodness! I'm so relieved, Kitty!
I thought perhaps you meant your top ... without the shirt... Regardless, please be careful and go very slowly!
Always remember there's no rewind button on the internet. Everyone here wants the best for you.

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26 Nov 2018, 11:39 pm

I’m relieved, too.



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26 Nov 2018, 11:55 pm

Kitty, we care about you and want you to be happy. You're an adult and need to make your own decisions, but I hope you ask us for advice or at least keep us posted at each step before you take them.



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27 Nov 2018, 1:51 am

So many naughty minded here, she said top, not boobs.



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27 Nov 2018, 1:55 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I met a man on OkCupid, we just going be friends, he told me he doesn’t want anything serious, but he said stuff that a friend would not say, we should take this slow. In one of my pictures, it showed my top, he loved what he saw. I told him that I have Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he accepted me for who I am, I cannot believe this is happening.


Good luck Kitty, I really hope all of this works out for you. Be cautious and be safe. It's easy for a man to say these things but whether he means them, I hope he does, remains to be seen later. I hope it works out though.