Women don’t find him sexually attractive!

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Jamesy
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29 Dec 2018, 11:10 am

One of my friends weighs 135-140 pounds is 5ft8, looks like Daniel Radcliffe, does drugs, drinks a lot and is very extroverted socially.

Yet women don’t find him sexually attractive. Do you think thats odd given the description of my friend I provided above because my friend is very social etc....



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29 Dec 2018, 11:28 am

Maybe they don’t like the drugs and alcohol part of him, or something about his personality.


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29 Dec 2018, 11:38 am

Maybe it's because the OP is generalizing that all women only care about a man's superficial appearance and social behavior. :roll:



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29 Dec 2018, 12:12 pm

^^ It would be so odd if one, whether a woman or man, wouldn’t care about the social behavior in a potential partner.



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29 Dec 2018, 12:14 pm

Drugs and alcohol may give you the courage to approach someone. They do not make you more attractive. Rather to the contrary. In the view of someone who does not take drugs and doesn't get drunk often they can diminish your attractiveness.

Extroversion alone doesn't make you attractive either, if it's not coupled with decent social skills.



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29 Dec 2018, 1:33 pm

Probably because he's short.



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29 Dec 2018, 2:49 pm

Probably because he looks like Daniel Radcliffe.


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29 Dec 2018, 3:09 pm

NorthWind wrote:
Drugs and alcohol may give you the courage to approach someone. They do not make you more attractive.

Except German beer. :mrgreen:
(Depends on the quantity of course.)


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29 Dec 2018, 3:16 pm

arielhawksquill wrote:
Probably because he's short.


5 ft 8 isn't even short bro.



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29 Dec 2018, 3:24 pm

5'8 is sometimes considered short, it's on the lower side.



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29 Dec 2018, 3:27 pm

Probably because they see Harry Potter when they see him.



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29 Dec 2018, 4:02 pm

It’s not height. I’m just under 5 foot 5....and I’ve done okay. 5 foot 8 is just about average.

Nothing wrong with looking like Radcliffe.....or Burl Ives.

There’s probably other reasons other than his looks. Does he act like a jerk to people?



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29 Dec 2018, 4:13 pm

Jamesy wrote:
women don’t find him sexually attractive

How do you know this?

Maybe he prefers you Jamsey.



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29 Dec 2018, 4:18 pm

Hollywood_Guy wrote:
5'8 is sometimes considered short, it's on the lower side.



I’m on OkCupid, I’m 5’4, I would like the man if he is 5’8 :D I’m talking to men that are up to 6’4, over 6’2 is too tall for me, but I’m talking to them anyway, cuz I like their profiles :D


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29 Dec 2018, 5:31 pm

Drugs and alcohol can impair sexual performance.

Alcohol is the drug which most affects sexual arousal (erectile capacity). This is the first study to reveal the permanent effect of substance abuse on sexuality, even after long abstinence periods. Finally, orgasms are prevailingly impaired by heroin, cocaine, alcohol and speedball

Drug abuse impairs sexual performance in men even after rehabilitation
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January 17, 2013
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University of Granada
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Alcohol is the drug that most affects sexual arousal (erectile capacity), according to new research. In addition, researchers observed that men did not improve their sexual performance when they stopped drinking alcohol. The study included 905 men of which 550 had been diagnosed with alcohol, cocaine, cocaine and alcohol, heroin, marijuana and speedball (cocaine and heroin) addiction