Child of the Universe wrote:
You absolutely can have as many male friends as you want in a relationship, as long as you don't engage in romantic or sexual activity with them, which I assume you don't. If your man is trying to control who you can be friends with, that's abusive and you need to either tell him it's not okay or leave him.
You are right, I met them before I met my boyfriend. There three guys from here that I PM & talked to on Facebook messenger, there were two more guy, but they disappeared. I met a man in my city, we talk on Facebook messenger, all of these guys understand me better than my other friends.